My girlfriend left me for a guy with more $

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Yep. We "loved" each other and everything, but when I told her I've been struggling to pay rent, she went cold.

I asked her what's up and she said nothing, she's feeling a bit "under the weather" and "depressed".

I didn't ask her for money or nothing, just shared my emotional state with her.

I really thought she loved me for who I was, but that was all a lie apparently.

She broke up with me over text. OVER FRICKING TEXT. She even had the audacity to say sorry.

Next day she's with another man, of course.

I'm so hurt yet I can't cry. I really thought I would have something long-term with her, but nooooooo.

Anyways, I'm back here now, gonna start the grind again, not to impress her, but just to enjoy the satisfaction of living a better life than her.

I hate this world. I hate society. And I hate myself.



I know it's only Wednesday, but let this be a nice warm up for the weekend ;)
 
All the more reasons to say F that and work on bettering yourself, for yourself and not for a woman. ;)
Preach brother! I just hate how materialistic and "pragmatic" everyone has become.

It's not because she loves money more than you or she is a goldigger
Just because she feel safe with money
and you don't make her safe anymore
I know man, but is that a reason to kill a 1y relationship? We planned a future together and she threw it all away because I had a rough patch? F that!
 
There will be tons like her, don't worry!
I hope not. I can't take this shit anymore.
Don't hate her, yourself or society.
You are going through a tough time, but things will get better.
Focus on yourself and your goals.
Thanks man, but I'm so riled up right now, only thing I can do is vent here.
 
Bro ! Life is Just like a Bus !
you aim for your goal ( which is the destination) , people get on the bus sit next you and travel till their stop comes - Even though they get down of the bus we have to make sure that we reach our destination.
So you are still towards your passion and goal , so think now is the chance for you to gaze the window and enjoy the view and life shown to you.

For sure you will get there bro ! i wish you all success.
 
I hope not. I can't take this shit anymore.

Thanks man, but I'm so riled up right now, only thing I can do is vent here.

Have a drink, have a cry, vent, and smash something up (that you own) if it makes you feel better tonight, but pledge to yourself that you will start tomorrow with a positive attitude and forgive her in your mind.
Letting the negative emotions rule you, will just delay you in reaching your goals.
Most of us have been there and been dumped at one point or another, and it hurts and sucks, BUT you will meet somebody better in the future that will make you happy – guaranteed.
 
Bro ! Life is Just like a Bus !
you aim for your goal ( which is the destination) , people get on the bus sit next you and travel till their stop comes - Even though they get down of the bus we have to make sure that we reach our destination.
So you are still towards your passion and goal , so think now is the chance for you to gaze the window and enjoy the view and life shown to you.

For sure you will get there bro ! i wish you all success.
I really like this analogy, did you come up with it yourself or did you read it somewhere? Let me know!
Just forget about it man. Don't do stuff to spite her, just move on with your life and focus on what you want to focus on.
I think I need to just chill for a week. I'm emotionally unstable atm.
what a hoe.


Anyways be glad that she left ya now and not 5 years later with 2 kids.


Fuck the hoes.
This is exactly how I feel!
Have a drink, have a cry, vent, and smash something up (that you own) if it makes you feel better tonight, but pledge to yourself that you will start tomorrow with a positive attitude and forgive her in your mind.
Letting the negative emotions rule you, will just delay you in reaching your goals.
Most of us have been there and been dumped at one point or another, and it hurts and sucks, BUT you will meet somebody better in the future that will make you happy – guaranteed.
Thanks man, I'll go have a smoke
 
Clearly she wasn't the right one, if you wanna say it like that. Of course i can understand the whole "Woman wanna feel safe and secure" but everybody (even the big company CEO's) have had tough times, so they will always be there at some point in our lives. She clearly showed that shes for the streets. Sorry to be so blunt, but thats what it seems like. She does not value you or your feelings as a person and you have all right to be upset about this. I guess you could look at it from the positive side. Imagine you would've been married to her and would've discovered that side of her in your marriage. I would be even more complicated then.
 
Clearly she wasn't the right one, if you wanna say it like that. Of course i can understand the whole "Woman wanna feel safe and secure" but everybody (even the big company CEO's) have had tough times, so they will always be there at some point in our lives. She clearly showed that shes for the streets. Sorry to be so blunt, but thats what it seems like. She does not value you or your feelings as a person and you have all right to be upset about this. I guess you could look at it from the positive side. Imagine you would've been married to her and would've discovered that side of her in your marriage. I would be even more complicated then.
You're 100% right and putting things into perspective. I might just be lucky she left me now...

Btw brother, congratulations on the Super Moderator title, when did that happen? Man, I've been AWOL for three years...
 
You're 100% right and putting things into perspective. I might just be lucky she left me now...
Yes, be lucky. You are a free man now. Just think about all the positive things you can experience and do without her. There are a lot of things to do!
Btw brother, congratulations on the Super Moderator title, when did that happen? Man, I've been AWOL for three years...
No idea, lol. But great to have you back. Time to get on the grind.
 
Damn dont be sorry i had 2 years 3years 4 years and another one 3 years relationships now single and still dont give a fuck if she is the one you will know it and other few from 1 week to 4 months most of them i left them cause they try to control me and i know for sure i am not the problem
 
Youtube Search "Fresh and Fit Podcast"

They have all the answers to your girl problems.
 
Yep. We "loved" each other and everything, but when I told her I've been struggling to pay rent, she went cold.

I asked her what's up and she said nothing, she's feeling a bit "under the weather" and "depressed".

I didn't ask her for money or nothing, just shared my emotional state with her.

I really thought she loved me for who I was, but that was all a lie apparently.

She broke up with me over text. OVER FRICKING TEXT. She even had the audacity to say sorry.

Next day she's with another man, of course.

I'm so hurt yet I can't cry. I really thought I would have something long-term with her, but nooooooo.

Anyways, I'm back here now, gonna start the grind again, not to impress her, but just to enjoy the satisfaction of living a better life than her.

I hate this world. I hate society. And I hate myself.



I know it's only Wednesday, but let this be a nice warm up for the weekend ;)
i lub you scrib
ps how much money do you have for me

on the more seriousness side
Things happen for a reason, you will find someone who is true to you :)
 
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