OK, I'll bite.
If your wife is about to have a nervous breakdown, the police don't help, you've done the nice guy thing, and you don't want to get sued, you need to fight back somehow. You *can* do it the blackhat way, IRL, and you can use the tools and methods that are here.
First you need to look at it as if you look at a blackhat site - you can put time or money into it. You can outsource or you can automate. You can google bowl, but you can't break the law. Oh, and, uh, you won't be needing the police.
Your goal is to get their "IP addresses" or identities and then "google bowl" them. That's all you need to do. begin by tracking down and adding alll of your neighbors (the adults) on Facebook, Myspace, Twitter and every other social network. If they're asian they probably prefer friendster. Don't forget about Tagged. Basically google stalk them and add them as friends to your profiles and/or to fake profiles. Start a cheezy looking personal blog with a couple of posts that are meaningless but linked to facebook and twitter. Begin adding twitter friends from hell, and do the same with FB and Myspace. Add everyone you can who is local and continue to do so, using the friend adders and twitter automator. Be absolutely sure to add as many people as possible who go to their church, since you keep mentioning that. That's part one of the online component. I'll get to part two in the end.
With money you can hire Priavte Investigators's or amateur wanna-be PI's. Forget PI's unless you have the cash or can design a killer website/marketing program for them. Think of the amateurs as Indians or other people you would hire for your online business - they might not know much, but they are cheap and trainable. They need to be careful and not interact - all you want are photos and possibly home addresses, so I would hire a craigslist poster to put up ads on craigslist stating your problem and soliciting bids. Explicitly state that all you want are clear photos of the kids, no threats, no physical interaction, just clear photos. You can pay per photo ("CPA") or by the hour. Get the lowest price possible and barter if possible so that you can conserve your funds for other tools/services. Possibly offer to build and host a website for them in exchange for photos. If you do hire a PI, you can probably promise that you will get them more publicity than they will know what to do with.
You could also automate this process of obtaining photos, but you haven't had any luck with the tools you're using. What would you do with software, hardware, or a website that you're not having luck with? That's right, you re-evaluate your use of it and/or flip it and/or upgrade it. I say sell the cameras you own and use that money to finance your second attempt, but you need to have a realistic budget and a time limit. How long will it take to get results? Is spending your way out of this a realistic option? What about repurposing tools like hunters cameras? They are automated, they are cheap, and they are FUCKING CAMOFLAGED. You've also already "tracked your referers". You know the kids know where your cameras are and they avoid them. You can buy FAKE cameras and put them in those spots because you already know they will avoid those areas. They're probably cheaper than real cameras so you can move your current cameras to the spots that were not covered before and be more careful about hiding your cameras. Use camo and paint and move everything around 4:30 am so *nobody* will see you do it. Put out the new cameras at night and take them in during the day. Heck, move your cameras often.
But you might not have the money for that, and/or the kids might not be that stupid. They may find and steal or destroy the hunting cameras. If you think they might steal them, then there is always the GPS tracking device option, so you can find out where they live. Put out several cheap ones that you can buy online or from alibaba.com ( and/or non-working ones from ebay) and let them take them home with them. Think of it as a honey pot, and you're tracking their IP's instead of photographing them. The ideal solution would be to do many of these things - outsource photos to amateurs, move your current cameras, and get them to steal your cameras with gps tracking enabled. (Google "gps tracking device" for products)
But let's back up for a second. Let's say you're starting a BH site and you have more time than money. You can't outsource and you have limited tools. You've learned how NOT to use the tools you have. What else do you have on hand? A digital camera? A friendly neighbor? A car/place to hide? All you need are photos. Get them any way you can. This may take time. You probably need to find out when these kids are egging your house before you can devote your time to photographing them. It's a matter of trial and error, standing guard/sentry at different times and in different places. If this were a website and you had no money, you would do whatever it takes, so do that. Move your car to a good spot and start using it as a sentry point for a few random hours each night until you know when they come around. Don't act - don't get caught - don't spook them - just observe so you know when they come around, where they come from, and where they go so you can put yourself or another person in the right place at the right time for photos.
Next step is to get the photos. They should be perfect if you've taken the time to do this. Get as many as possible. I'm talking hundreds. If you have video then you're going to need to hire a video poster. If you have their mailing addresses, too - that's awesome. but you're going to play dumb and act as if you don't know them.
So part two of the online component is this: Begin by posting it all to that "personal" blog after you polish it up. Turn it into a killer but amateur-looking blog with a decent logo, a twitter feed, and facebook connect. Now it's time to start spamming and playing the part of the victomized neighbor. You send 1 photo and an inquiring note to each of your neighbors by snail-mail every day, as well as their church, saying how the police haven't been able to help you and you want to make sure that nobody else has to suffer the way that you have been suffering for years. Say that you are wondering who those kids are, they're obviously not members of one of the good Christian families from your neighborhood. You simultaneously post it to facebook and myspace, and message them. Daily. Hourly if you have enough material. You myspace them. Wall posts. Messages. Facebook chat. Email. Youtube. Then sick **********, Digg, and reddit on them. Post links to your blog all over the net. I'm sure there are better sites. And you absolutely do not respond to anyone, you let it drag out until you've exhausted your content.
As always, this is just one method. You should probably put your own spin on it.
