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because its a good way to build confidence in yourself while also keeping you healthy
I am a weak man. I hate myself.
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I know this might sound corny, but you are you and embrace all your strengths and work on your weaknesses. Life has just begun as you have today, and many people today didn't have this opportunity. Remember to love yourself and understand you are a work of art in progress, and perfectionism is hurting you. Look at all things you have done and accomplished and build skills each day to improve yourself. Lastly, stop being so hard on yourself as you can see it has not worked for you in the past, so why keep doing it. I wish you the best.
andyframpton
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Maybe for some not for all.
I have confidence and don’t have muscles.
sconstantinos
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You can achieve whatever you want my friend, you just don't know it yet. Once you realize it, you will be a happy man.
Put goals in your life and stick to them. Start by small things, and you will slowly start putting bigger goals.
The more goals you achieve, the stronger you will become!
Put goals in your life and stick to them. Start by small things, and you will slowly start putting bigger goals.
The more goals you achieve, the stronger you will become!
andyframpton
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Very good quote.Be yourself, because everybody else is already taken
“People say to me just be yourself
It makes no sense to follow fashion
How could I be anybody else
I don't try, I've got no reason”
The special. Do nothing.
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obviously, but for people with no self confidence, building muscles and being healthy is a good kickstart
andyframpton
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So automatically with muscles come confidence?
Confidence comes from within. It’s does not come from an outside shell.
Why do bodybuilders need to get bigger and bigger? Lack of confidence in the way they look. Why use steroids? (I know that everyone who pumps weight don’t use them) because you think someone is bigger than you and it knocks your confidence. Health is different from muscles.
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For most people, yes.
A lot of people have issues with their appearance and gaining muscle is an instant confidence boost. Trust me, I've seen this happen a million times already.
Even for me, I've always been confident in myself even when I was a scrawny little kid but the moment I started lifting and noticing results it just lifted my confidence to a whole new level.
Bodybuilders compete in specific competitions where size and proportions are everything that's why they continuously try to improve, not necessarily confidence issues.
Although it does happen what you've said, people always feel smaller than someone else and no matter what can't get confident despite all the hard work and changes they've experienced, but that happens with everything, making money is the same, some people just aren't satisfied no matter how much money they make.
There's not much advice you can give to help someone gain confidence so the most simple sure-fire way for a good 80%+ of the population is to simply start lifting. Especially if you're a male the attention you'll get from females will instantly boost your confidence.
andyframpton
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I agree with people will never think enough is enough.
Totally disagree that once you start pumping weight makes you more confident.
Totally disagree that once you start pumping weight makes you more confident.
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What do I do with my life?
You can start do or work in area you like the most.
I am a man but i am not able to carry out my responsibilities.
I understand what you mean, but you are a conciousness first ( in Man body ). You forget of who you are and play a game with yourself like we all do. Who decides what are your responsibilities.... Who says what are mans resposibillities... Who is deciding that...
While my brother is the man and he can do everything.
I doubt he can do EVERYTHING...he can do everything from your point of view.
I want to be like my brother
You can try to be like your brother. But even if you do everything in your power to be like him and you maybe "become him" you will still be fake and you will still not be enough ( at least from your point of view ). Because this act is coming from a state that you are NOT Enough. So what do you think will be outcome...
I want to be as strong and as useful as him.
Really? Is it not rather that you want to have that acceptance and "popularity" he is having? Or what you thing he have from others?
What do i do to become a man?
What is it to be a man? What is your authority? Who decided what is it to be a man? People accept so many things because they hear them somewhere. Or because they have some authority that they believe or just listen to. Who told you what it is to be a man?
It's like i was born into a family of warriors and i can never be one like my brothers.
There are so many reasons for this...You know why you were born to this family. You just forget. If you really want to discover that you will know it sooner or later...Maybe it seems like it's something bad...but maybe you are here to show then some other side they need to see. If you wanted to be the same as them you would be, but you did not.
In times of battle, they would often leave me behind because i am weak.
You can decide right now that all of the weakness you have ( you think you have ) is now your strenght. Only allow everything to give you strenght. Even if you don't know how this can be benefitical for you. You are deciding what effect has ANY situation in your life on you.
I try to be good at things but i am never manly enough for them.
If they would truly love you they would never want you to become anything. They would support you and help you. Also understand that they can only give you what THEY ARE. If they need to constantly remind you you are not enough then they definitely don't feel enough in themself. Is this what you want to become?? And maybe this can be a reason for you to be in this family, to reflect them what they need. But first you have to be YOURSELF FIRST.
Don't try to be good for them. Love and accept yourself. And if you can't. At least be honest with yourself. Mabye it will take a time but eventually you will realize the reasons.
Likri
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Be yourself and stop trying to be like someone else.
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Cut it off
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You need more testosterone. You can buy it and inject yourself with it and 95% of your worldly problems will be solved in between 1 - 2 weeks. (not sarcasm)
Cypionate is the best. If you live in a country like India you can probably buy it from your local pharmacy or direct from a factory there.
Cypionate is the best. If you live in a country like India you can probably buy it from your local pharmacy or direct from a factory there.
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to show how much we all miss @Blackhat Lifter
But to @Doctor.Collector be you, don't be someone else.
Have expectations for yourself, don't reach someone else's expectations.
You will never succeed that way, people are greedy, people always want more.