I am lost

[Psh]

Not this time It's a fucking real full-month journey of being mindfucked.

How many PMs did you get about the $300k/year "method"?

Real sneaky, nice one.

 

[kvvni]

How many PMs did you get about the $300k/year "method"?

Real sneaky, nice one.

ahahah no one, fortunately

 

[dababy]

Dude you're young you prouve yourself! If she aint afraid of losing you, MOVE ON! otherwise give her time and attention will be fine!
Best of luck, remember if someone dont trait you the way you want, don't waste your time. XOXO

 

[kvvni]

Dude you're young you prouve yourself! If she aint afraid of losing you, MOVE ON! otherwise give her time and attention will be fine!
Best of luck, remember if someone dont trait you the way you want, don't waste your time. XOXO

Welcome to BHW bro Thanks, 100% well said.

 

[kvvni]

My homie 2 weeks after my breakup: "hey, are you not with her anymore? I saw her on tinder"
Me on her birthday: "you have been seen, hehe".
She: "Nah, no Tinder! Because Tinder is all about one thing. I put on a badoo but only horny guys."


lmao

just a quick update, fyi

 

[excaflowne]

I got that kind of attached feeling in my 20s to multiple girls, then after it just fuck it, the feeling fade away after a few years and I found it's ridiculous.

It's strange because all those years of lingering they meant almost like the world.

So everything, good or bad will pass.

My suggestions, you need to learn some celebrity-like charisma in your niche so you'll have a lot of fans and won't feel lonely.

 

[Dark Knight]

This thread is an example money isn't everything, so while you run after money don't forget to run after life.........
happened to some of us, just saying.

 

[YTPro]

Check your estrogen !!!

 

[admax92]

Hii Man
You have alot of anything even you dont know.
You are still young and the future will very very beautiful !
Best wish for you.

 

[rrokotele]

My homie 2 weeks after my breakup: "hey, are you not with her anymore? I saw her on tinder"
Me on her birthday: "you have been seen, hehe".
She: "Nah, no Tinder! Because Tinder is all about one thing. I put on a badoo but only horny guys."


lmao

just a quick update, fyi

I will explain to you what will happen in my broken English. She was bored, she probably meet someone exciting online (everyone online gives the illusion that is romantic, caring etc) This happens because she creates with her fantasy the ideal person. The unknown attracts her but the thing is that the unknown is exciting for about 1-3 months max, and then becomes boring again. When these happens (and I assure you it will) she will love you even more because she will make comparisons with the life that had with you and the past with you will feel like paradise. She will beg you to be together again. If you love her, don’t say anything bad about her. Keep your mouth shut and wait for her to come back to you in tears.
Thank me latter with your method to make money

 

[Paul1427]

I will explain to you what will happen in my broken English. She was bored, she probably meet someone exciting online (everyone online gives the illusion that is romantic, caring etc) This happens because she creates with her fantasy the ideal person. The unknown attracts her but the thing is that the unknown is exciting for about 1-3 months max, and then becomes boring again. When these happens (and I assure you it will) she will love you even more because she will make comparisons with the life that had with you and the past with you will feel like paradise. She will beg you to be together again. If you love her, don’t say anything bad about her. Keep your mouth shut and wait for her to come back to you in tears.
Thank me latter with your method to make money

Let's suppose you are right! But they are young..what future to have if she already bored after 4 years of relationship? How to look into her eyes when you know that 1-3 month was "excited" with other man? How do you trust her now? The principle of a relationship is TRUST. In my opinion, if she broke up then MOVE ON. Find the right person who will stay with you in difficult times and deserves your attention! Otherwise next year we have another (again) topic!

 

[Waitwaitdontshoot]

This is what you do--

Give her space. Let her explore life and if you've treated her well enough she will realize how good she's had it. She needs to see what else is out there to truly appreciate you.

If she's comes back, she will value you more. If she doesn't, you're better off without her.

 

[kvvni]

This thread is an example money isn't everything, so while you run after money don't forget to run after life.........
happened to some of us, just saying.

Yeah, we've been enjoying life together tbh. I mean, she is from not so "rich home", me too, but I made a lot from our relationship beginning and we could do things that other can't. Anyway, that's true. If you have enough money, you can make a lot more, but you don't give a fuck about that as if you'd be broke. Thanks bro.

Hii Man
You have alot of anything even you dont know.
You are still young and the future will very very beautiful !
Best wish for you.

Thank you! I hope so

I will explain to you what will happen in my broken English. She was bored, she probably meet someone exciting online (everyone online gives the illusion that is romantic, caring etc) This happens because she creates with her fantasy the ideal person. The unknown attracts her but the thing is that the unknown is exciting for about 1-3 months max, and then becomes boring again. When these happens (and I assure you it will) she will love you even more because she will make comparisons with the life that had with you and the past with you will feel like paradise. She will beg you to be together again. If you love her, don’t say anything bad about her. Keep your mouth shut and wait for her to come back to you in tears.
Thank me latter with your method to make money

Also heard it from my friends. I don't give a fuck about that. If my ex think life will be nice, OK. I let her go, let's see I will update the thread eventually Your english is good man! Very nice to read your post.

Let's suppose you are right! But they are young..what future to have if she already bored after 4 years of relationship? How to look into her eyes when you know that 1-3 month was "excited" with other man? How do you trust her now? The principle of a relationship is TRUST. In my opinion, if she broke up then MOVE ON. Find the right person who will stay with you in difficult times and deserves your attention! Otherwise next year we have another (again) topic!

True. It'd be hard if I will (for example) see her on instagram with other boy. I will definitely not forgive, because as you can see - my brain was mixed up, I give up on my work and everything for her and received totally nothing. 2 months. I was (and I am) sick of that.

This is what you do--

Give her space. Let her explore life and if you've treated her well enough she will realize how good she's had it. She needs to see what else is out there to truly appreciate you.

If she's comes back, she will value you more. If she doesn't, you're better off without her.

As above - agreed. But I will definitely not "wait" for her. I could think about it if I did something wrong, treated her badly or something. Now, I feel like we broke up because "she wants to see what's outside."



I've been partying a bit lately, running a lot, I stopped eating fast food, the gym as always. I'm almost in top shape, just the weather improve and let's go... MORE LIFE

 

[rrokotele]

Don’t worry man she will be yours again. The question is: Will you love her the same as before?

 

[kvvni]

Don’t worry man she will be yours again. The question is: Will you love her the same as before?

And that’s the question

 

[kvvni]

I met some nice people in this month. I am now considering if it’s not better scenario. Who knows how it will look in next months 8) to be honest I am Very optimistic, thanks to you ALL. Sending love from Central Europe

 

[botguy]

I hope you are doing well, just want to share my case with you: my ex was a covert narcissist, i was abused emotionally for 1 year and didn't even know that, its hard to figure it out. She was totally fake, i was confused and full of anxiety everyday, such kinds of people have 0 empathy, i left her and now i am very happy and much better

 

[kvvni]

I hope you are doing well, just want to share my case with you: my ex was a covert narcissist, i was abused emotionally for 1 year and didn't even know that, its hard to figure it out. She was totally fake, i was confused and full of anxiety everyday, such kinds of people have 0 empathy, i left her and now i am very happy and much better

What a good ending of this story. Great to read you are well man! You will be more experienced in next relationships

 

[ThorTheDog]

Great read OP, glad you've moved on, as it is pretty hard after 5 years, but if there isn't a good conversation and the willing to solve relationship issues from the both sides, there's nothing you can do about it alone. There is a saying " You can't help the person that doesn't want to be helped ". So congrats on moving on.
BTW: What's the 300k method again )?

 

[koliman]

I could say that this 5 years are not a waste, is a life course that ended. You are young, experienced, making your own living. I have "wasted" years of relationships that was seeming to be "perfect" , don't give up with the first bad shit happened. Gimme them hell tiger and show that girl what a great guy she left.

P.s. how you make lot of money bra?! (just kidding) Keep up the great work and first of all take care yourself.