How You Will React To This? (Week-end thread)

[BrandingCat]

I drink my coffee in the morning studying people from my balcony every day, I am a weirdo. So, this morning I saw my professor of informatics/programming from high-school.

This professor "force" students to learn C++ like monkeys which I refuse to and he makes my high-school a nightmare, telling me I am just useless in a way or other and I will never have success in my life just because I don't "respect" other people even if I explain many times I can't learn programming because is not for me, in exchange I was doing beautiful sites for school projects which at that time they don't even dream. (we talk about 12 years ago)

Now, I see the professor walking to the school I guess, doing the same job and my mind was like:

1. Should I be proud of me because I achieve more than I was expecting and I am not even 30 years old yet even if cunts like him push me mentality down at my young age? I can make in 1 month easily what he do in 1 year.
2. Should I respect his position of "teacher" even if he was a clear cunt just because he follows school rules?
3. Should I care? I have other things to focus on!
4. I'll invite him to a coffee and explaining how stupid it is if he has the same mentality thinking all students can do some shit at the same level?

I just looked at him and smiley friendly, but in my head was 3 million questions.

How you will react if you were in my position?

I know it's not all about money, but that's all related between him and me, he pushes me down for few years making me dropping high school because I was the black sheep and all the other professors thinking bad things of me even if I was pretty good at other fields.

Thanks!

 

[terrycody]

I choose 2

 

[693840]

1. Fuck people that push you down. Be proud of what you became, while he's still working his slave job while probably still talking people down.

 

[DE_GAME]

Will be going for (1)

 

[SEOhacks]

(4) Prove him wrong. Maybe you get him to change his attitude with his current students, maybe there are some in your old situation with him.

 

[Starblazer]

Choose whichever option that makes you happy, because that's what really matters.

 

[IG Professor]

Be nice to everyone... even for cunts. you don't know where you will meet them one day

 

[Mr Positive]

3) you cannot control what others think or feel, I believe everyone is matured enough to make their own dec and honestly you need to forgive him, holding anger against anyone creates resentmen, resentment creates disease. Now that I have healed you send me my commission cut from this months earnings

 

[swisfa]

Probably he was the reason for your success now.

Let's say he was a good teacher and you get your degree, there is a high chance that you'll be now working a 9 to 5 job.

Sometimes bad experiences could be the reason for the good ones.

 

[YujinTan]

He will say " I purposely say negative stuffs on you is to push you to greater heights now you should thanks me , buy me a coffee "

 

[Seosmm27]

2. Always respect Teachers.

 

[Heiko]

Should I be proud of me because I achieve more than I was expecting and I am not even 30 years old yet even if cunts like him push me mentality down at my young age? I can make in 1 month easily what he do in 1 year.

Yes. Be proud of you.

Should I respect his position of "teacher" even if he was a clear cunt just because he follows school rules?

Yes, always respect the teacher but do take some things with a grain of salt. Especially when he tells you that you are worthless and will never make it anywhere in life. It's his perception of you. You've already proven for yourself that it's not the case.

Should I care? I have other things to focus on!

No, if he doesn't bring value to your life then its a waste of energy for you.

I'll invite him to a coffee and explaining how stupid it is if he has the same mentality thinking all students can do some shit at the same level?

Don't do it, just let him live in his own little world. I realized pretty early in life that sometimes it's just better to let things go instead of trying to fix things and waste your energy on it.

 

[back2form]

1. Fuck people that push you down. Be proud of what you became, while he's still working his slave job while probably still talking people down.

Thank those people who pushes you down!
Because people who fall the hardest bounce back the highest!

The true success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom

 

[693840]

Thank those people who pushes you down!
Because people who fall the hardest bounce back the highest!

The true success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom

That's one way to look at it.

 

[Carnaged]

thank your professor.
in my eyes, he has done nothing wrong and is no way a C U Next Tuesday.
12 years ago, he was trying to teach you the programming language that is STILL superior 12 years later and youre upset that you joined HIS class and he kept pushing you all to learn something that is still relevant to this day and age.
i think u gotta look at urself in a mirror and question whether you were in fact the C U Next Tuesday.
by the looks of what uve written, he pushed his students to make sure they adapt, learn and can strive in the real working world.
though, coding might not be for you(dont know why u were in a coding class/subject) and it isnt for some(im more of a coder than a hands on person, so i probably acted like you in my hands on subjects), i think itd be better for you to thank him for pushing you and leaving a mental mark making u strong and apologise for your attitude.
as someone said above, people push u down, but that can strengthen u in other ways.

 

[perrymason]

3 for me, there are plenty of useless people in the education business -even the system itself-. Not passing or being capable for math, history or whatever subject doesn't make you better or worse.

 

[alternatesword]

I don't know about school system in your country but in my country there was only one subject named "computer science" And it covers both hardware and software..Also only one Teacher for the computer science. How can we blame the Teacher? It's just the school system.

 

[Sweetrevenge]

Option 3
Just think about something else. You cannot change the past and you don't have any control over what people may think of you. Just move on with your life

 

[Dopious]

Invite him for a coffee, you clearly have issues, and he might have changed his way of teaching. Have a chat, he might not be as bad as you remembered .. =)

 

[uncutu]

smile and nod. go on with my life. blowing it in other peoples faces only causes resentment. look at me i have these wildly profitable online business and a 4 hour work week. oh you're still waging at that shitty school? wow tell me about that.
youre accomplishing your personals development goals.
this guys still teaching and likely still berating kids.

i never liked school. i spoke candidly with many of my teachers and they didnt even like it. it was the only job they could get to pay the bills.