My Life sucks.

I'm now 25 , wasted all my time doing the exact same thing as you ... spent all my days being a good-boy, trying to get friends , doing what my parents say , helping my father in his job that i hated the most , getting Good grades in school because idk why i was even studying , know what this caused me ? got fuck tone of emotional problems that i needed a therapy , got addicted to pornography/ hentai masturbation and gaming , I was masturbating and watching porn and gaming all day , I become depressed as shit , suicidal thoughts , No job no income , I was in a very Dark Shit hole , you know how I got out from it ?

“If you can't fly then run, if you can't run then walk, if you can't walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.”

― Martin Luther King Jr.

literally this is what i did , I crawled . little by little I kicked out ALL my problems my self , none come saved me or anything , now I'm far form the guy i used to be , and far from being the one i want . and the thing about anti social is the best thing that could happen in your life , I'm anti social too i have like 1 friend and i don't even meet him that much , because i love being with my self and my thoughts , when you remove all the noise and distractions and the shit shallow relationships you start to realize what you want in life , the only thing that should concern you now is to make the life of your dreams come true.

many old people will wish to be in your place if only they can go back to be 25 years old they could have done shit differently , they could have kicked their addictions sooner and could have kept their marriage intact , they could have learn to be disciplined and committed in that age and built the life they wanted , if your 25 years old , then your automatically ahead of many many people , some people don't even realize what you realize until they either hit the bucket or they have kids and responsibilities and chains that bind them . don't be A moron this part or stage of your life is the most important stage focus on removing unnecessary shit first then start adding shit that is necessary little by little , there's no short cuts , life is simple and is changing millimeter by millimeter , you gotta live , so you gotta suffer , so you gotta embrace pain , pain is your teacher . either that or your dead . The End .

P.S. the video that set My 1st domino to fall i hope it helps you , I wish you all the luck ..
 
I feel so down today yesterday, the day before, the weeks and months and years before too. I feel like I have wasted my youth. I am 25 and never did anything fun till now. I have always been obedient to my parents, a good boy, anti-social, a hardworker.. and now my youth is over. I never had a gf, never enjoyed anything, never had fun.. Even in my college, i never found the time to have fun with friends. And i feel like I have wasted my Life. I don't see any way to get the things I want in life. I have almost given up.

You aren't "old" and your youth is not "over" by any means. You sound like a late bloomer, and there is nothing wrong with that. Now is the time to start planning to "do more" that you wish you'd previously done. Do some self evaluation and figure out some things you'd like to change and game plan on how to improve those areas in healthy positive ways. I worked on my socialization skills when I was around your age, and it yielded great results. People can make great gains by identifying weaknesses in themselves and taking steps to improve upon those areas. Even a TINY improvement can be huge over time. And a few little improvements can be lifechanging. Since we are all trapped with covid, now is a good time to make plans and decide what changes you want to make once things are finally normal again. Just stay positive.

-ThopHayt
 
First of all you are 25 not 85
Second and final live in the moment
The time is now!
I have this poster in my desk so I won't be wasting time regretting what happened in the past or might happen in the future.
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Take it easy mate! :)
Much love to you
 
There is nothing bad in being anti-social, If you are surrended by idiots, noobs and conformists.
Im anti-social too. And thats okay.
All you need is do something different. You will not get different results If you do the same.
Also, there's nothing bad being obedient to your parents, but, dont let them cut your wings.
Some parents with their fear and protection, can cut your wings.
They only want to protect you. And you have to show them that you are auto suficient.

I hope you take note.
Move different.
If you keep moving the same way, you will be in the same way.
You don't need to be a scientist to know it.
 
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Sometimes those who don't socialize much aren't actually anti-social, they just have no tolerance for drama and fake people.
 
I feel so down today yesterday, the day before, the weeks and months and years before too. I feel like I have wasted my youth. I am 25 and never did anything fun till now. I have always been obedient to my parents, a good boy, anti-social, a hardworker.. and now my youth is over. I never had a gf, never enjoyed anything, never had fun.. Even in my college, i never found the time to have fun with friends. And i feel like I have wasted my Life. I don't see any way to get the things I want in life. I have almost given up.

You're 25 mate. Get a grip :)

That's YOUNG. Almost no one does anything productive until about age 25.

Your life has only just begun. You've got 10 years of business building ahead of you and you'll only be 35. TEN years. That's a big chunk of time if you use it properly. If you buck up now and start your journey then when you're 35 you could be worth $5-$15mil, with a solid business and tons of experience behind you. Then from there you've got ANOTHER 10 years to take it to the next level. You are still very young. Get to work!
 
Sometimes those who don't socialize much aren't actually anti-social, they just have no tolerance for drama and fake people.
When I read your words, I feel like solving the most difficult questions that always bother me when I am pondering and alone
 
You are talking like your life is over, and you are just 25. You are just starting, and it's ok. Stop thinking in terms of how other people parameters of life and success work and think of whatever you would like to do.

Sadly this is a very bad moment to get some hookers but it will end, is not a bad moment to make some money and when all this shit ends, get some hookers with that money ;)


You are fucking plenty of time. You can try whatever you want, you can make whatever mistake you want (just don't kill anyone, or rape anyone, you are never too young for that kind of "mistakes")

I'm 35 and here in this fucking shit country i'm just starting, because is imposible to start before if not born rich. But whatever, you can start at any point of your life and it's ok.
 
I had the same feelings when I was 15 and the second time when I was around 25.
A mistake is a mistake when after discovering it you don't fix it.
Now when you realize your mistakes, it's time to change into something you want to be.
It's a good thing you came to this conclusion now and not when you are 60 with terminal cancer.
 
In these cases I recommend you search for professional help in your area. There are people that can help you get out of this mental state. Everyone is different and we deal with things differently. Our advice might not help you. That's why you should seek a doctor / specialist.

There's also medication to help ease your process. A therapist or doctor will guide you with that.

You don't see a football player trying to run with a broken leg. Similar to that, you need to fix the part of your brain that is injured. Let it heal and go back in full force. Good luck
 
I feel you buddy, I'm also the same I'm hitting 26 next month, everyday I overthink things lately.
i'm much worst actually, because I've been unemployed for a year now (in our world, we men are defined by our job and career) and I feel really useless everyday. and before hitting the bed I sometime think of doing suicide and even speaking it to myself.
But doing/thinking those things I know that I don't and never have the guts to do it. I just feel better sometime doing that.

Anyway my advice is find something that will get you busy.
and also once the pandemic is gone you should try hiking or outdoor sports that will make you meet new people.
btw try waking up early in the morning and starts jogging that lessen the depression sometime for me.
 
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