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Doctor.Collector

Doctor.Collector

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I feel so down today yesterday, the day before, the weeks and months and years before too. I feel like I have wasted my youth. I am 25 and never did anything fun till now. I have always been obedient to my parents, a good boy, anti-social, a hardworker.. and now my youth is over. I never had a gf, never enjoyed anything, never had fun.. Even in my college, i never found the time to have fun with friends. And i feel like I have wasted my Life. I don't see any way to get the things I want in life. I have almost given up.
 
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You should be happy that you worked hard earlier in life while the rest was partying. And see the benefits of hard working and enjoy life now :)
I was partying for 2 years every weekend, and I can't remember 99% of partys I went to. I feel like that just wasted my time.
 
mate, your 25, this is the time your life is supposed to be starting. when you hit over 30, then you gotta start re-evaluating things. right now, set your money/job/house up.
I partied all the way up until i was 30 and i regret most of it. pretty much all of it
 
Doctor.Collector said:
I feel so down today yesterday, the day before, the weeks and months and years before too. I feel like I have wasted my youth. I am 25 and never did anything fun till now. I have always been obedient to my parents, a good boy, anti-social, a hardworker.. and now my youth is over. I never had a gf, never enjoyed anything, never had fun.. Even in my college, i never found the time to have fun with friends. And i feel like I have wasted my Life. I don't see any way to get the things I want in life. I have almost given up.
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7 deep breaths and you are ok.
 
You've established more than most. Do you have friends? If so, compare yourself to them and you'll feel a lot better.

Now go out there and party! It's never too late.
 
Just start enjoying yourself coming days, Don't worried about the Past. It's a waste of time feeling something you did your past.
 
Doctor.Collector said:
I feel so down today yesterday, the day before, the weeks and months and years before too. I feel like I have wasted my youth. I am 25 and never did anything fun till now. I have always been obedient to my parents, a good boy, anti-social, a hardworker.. and now my youth is over. I never had a gf, never enjoyed anything, never had fun.. Even in my college, i never found the time to have fun with friends. And i feel like I have wasted my Life. I don't see any way to get the things I want in life. I have almost given up.
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Now that you didn't enjoy for 25 years, you must have used all these years to learn something that earns you good money. If that is the case, 25 is very young, use that money to enjoy your life. Do whatever you want to do. Just chill. Things will start coming to you when you start thinking positively.
 
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mate, your 25, this is the time your life is supposed to be starting. when you hit over 30, then you gotta start re-evaluating things. right now, set your money/job/house up.
I partied all the way up until i was 30 and i regret most of it. pretty much all of it
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I don't know if money even matters now. I want to be happy and enjoy life but idk if i will ever do it. I have more responsibilities now than before. I wish i had freedom.
 
Your 25 and the world is at your feet.

I partied hard all the way to my late 30's.

I made many bad choices, developed dependencies and the friends I made were almost all fair weather partying buddies.

In hindsight, an exact science, I wish I'd followed your track and avoided most of the "fun".

Strike out, work at something you love, make good friends and, I'm pretty certain, the rest will all fall into place.

Good luck.

Ps Stay away from cheap booze, cheap drugs and cheap women.
 
Only if youth was over at 25 my friend. You need to meditate and evaluate what you want to be in different aspects of your life. Then craft your own style to reach those goals in such a way that it makes you feel good about yourself.

Remember its the process and not the product. All the best :)
 
Never too late.

I've seen people live on with same mentality & perspective for more than 10 years. All they do is complain and talk shit.

You're a million light years away. Instead, be grateful that you had this startling realization atleast now.
 
Doctor.Collector said:
I feel so down today yesterday, the day before, the weeks and months and years before too. I feel like I have wasted my youth. I am 25 and never did anything fun till now. I have always been obedient to my parents, a good boy, anti-social, a hardworker.. and now my youth is over. I never had a gf, never enjoyed anything, never had fun.. Even in my college, i never found the time to have fun with friends. And i feel like I have wasted my Life. I don't see any way to get the things I want in life. I have almost given up.
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Just by posting this, getting the courage to do it (clap clap) means a lot man!

I feel you, I know where you coming from, but... There is always a chance to turn things in our lives!

Trust me, I've been in dark places, I know how it feels to be down but NO MATTER WHAT and no matter how hard that kick was I was always and I WILL ALWAYS GET BETTER from that shit!

I mean, I can write like this for days...
You are in the right place, you should take some time to read about IM and see how things work to change your minds and start thinking about something else...
We can help you out no matter how stupid that might look right now.
If you want I can dm you, we can talk, I don't like when I see people sharing this type of stories!
If you need someone to talk, help or, just anything, please let me know.
 
25 you're in the best part of your life. It's good you realized all of this so you can start to make a change.
 
What's stopping you from doing those kinds of things now? No need to remain stuck focusing on what you haven't done, look forward and change your life into whatever you want
 
The fact is that talking about it can help, but it's like somebody telling you how to drive a car, without you ever sitting behind the wheel.

It can make you more confident and feel better about where you want to go, but you still need to put the seatbelt on and actually turn the ignition on, keep your mind on the road, indicate, turn in the right direction etc.

And you can spend years being told how to drive, and never end up actually getting the keys out of your pocket - until you do that and see where it takes you, you'll get nowhere.
 
but you still alive right
you can do many things in next 5 years that most wont have done till they are 30.
Now you at least know what has not worked in your life, so drop all that. Live like you want.
 
stop masturbating for 20 days and you will notice the difference
 
Still you have lots of life left bro, Life is beautiful, dont leave hope and do what you love. and love what you do .
 
Happiness is not about how many things (money) do you have. but it's about how you enjoy your situation.

Never trust anyone, all are selfish here except your family members.
 
Hey man, realise that this is totally normal and how many early 20s males feel. I suggest getting out of the house daily, pick up a sport or lift weights and start taking money seriously. It can change your life and gives you the power to change someone else's life.

Oh and dont worry about girls, they will eventually follow once they see you as a valuable man.

I am not a huge fan of motivational videos any longer but this video helped me immensely when I felt what you are feeling now. I recommend watching this daily :)

 
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