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Jimmy Undertones

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Hey you great people,

I am thinking of meeting an escort in the next week, i have not been dating any woman for nearly a year. I think it is due to working really hard, i still meet friends regular.

However the thought of it makes me nervous and feel a bit nauseous. I am not wanting to meet for any sexual intercourse as i believe its too risky, even with a condom. Just maybe a lap-dance, striptease, kissing etc, do you think this would be fine?

How can i get the courage to just do it, my brain is causing me all sorts of problems. Sorry for the slightly strange topic, but i thought you great people here my understand my challenges. Thank you so much for any advice you can give me, many thanks.
 
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we became relationships experts lol just kidding buddy. It's totally normal to be nervous but she's an escort man you don't have to be nervous you paid her to please you not you to please her.If you are afraid of getting sick or something then be safe and avoid kissing. You should find a girl man it's too easy thesedays, try tinder or any dating app. upload your real pictures don't be shy and one last thing to make it happen DONT CHASE GIRLS.
 
Azertber said:
we became relationships experts lol just kidding buddy. It's totally normal to be nervous but she's an escort man you don't have to be nervous you paid her to please you not you to please her.If you are afraid of getting sick or something then be safe and avoid kissing. You should find a girl man it's too easy thesedays, try tinder or any dating app. upload your real pictures don't be shy and one last thing to make it happen DONT CHASE GIRLS.
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Thanks buddy for your reply, yes i was hoping to meet an escort to then get my courage up to start dating again. I will try using Tinder and thanks for the advice, many thanks.
 
Jimmy Undertones said:
Thanks buddy for your reply, yes i was hoping to meet an escort to then get my courage up to start dating again. I will try using Tinder and thanks for the advice, many thanks.
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Dating an escort won't help you with nothing buddy " you are paying " any girl would be as nice as an escort if you will be her sugar daddy
 
Jimmy Undertones said:
Hey you great people,

I am thinking of meeting an escort in the next week, i have not been dating any woman for nearly a year. I think it is due to working really hard, i still meet friends regular.

However the thought of it makes me nervous and feel a bit nauseous. I am not wanting to meet for any sexual intercourse as i believe its too risky, even with a condom. Just maybe a lap-dance, striptease, kissing etc, do you think this would be fine?

How can i get the courage to just do it, my brain is causing me all sorts of problems. Sorry for the slightly strange topic, but i thought you great people here my understand my challenges. Thank you so much for any advice you can give me, many thanks.
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My guide might help then you won't need an escort
https://www.blackhatworld.com/seo/using-im-to-get-laid.1178494/
 
You need set days when you strictly go out. For example, every Friday - Saturday, you will go to a nightclub. Do this for an entire month until you get used to going out consistently. If you work a lot, you will be in your head much more than usual. There are courses out there (the majority of them are pretty bad for getting better with game). You just need to get rejected more often and approach in volume, build up a ton of numbers and 5 - 10% will convert. Treat that shit like internet marketing. Rinse and repeat.
 
Just go to what is called "A Strip Club" for your lap dance! if that is all you want.
 
PudgeyPerfect said:
You need set days when you strictly go out. For example, every Friday - Saturday, you will go to a nightclub. Do this for an entire month until you get used to going out consistently. If you work a lot, you will be in your head much more than usual. There are courses out there (the majority of them are pretty bad for getting better with game). You just need to get rejected more often and approach in volume, build up a ton of numbers and 5 - 10% will convert. Treat that shit like internet marketing. Rinse and repeat.
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Agree with @PudgeyPerfect here. OP, for the amount you would spend on the escort, you could invest in getting your tinder or okcupid profile optimized to get responses and dates. There are plenty of paid services for this work. If you are a shy person, you can attend speed dating events or join a dating agency instead. Hookers are not worth the price.

Better to invest that money into learning how to approach women, become attractive etc. Many years ago I read The Game by Neil Strauss which helped me get started. Though it helped me get my first few dates, when I look back now, a lot of these techniques were too choreographed. You can follow James Marshall (The Naturals Lifestyle). His content has helped me a lot to become successful in the part of my life that involves women and romantic love.
 
stepdub said:
Agree with @PudgeyPerfect here. OP, for the amount you would spend on the escort, you could invest in getting your tinder or okcupid profile optimized to get responses and dates. There are plenty of paid services for this work. If you are a shy person, you can attend speed dating events or join a dating agency instead. Hookers are not worth the price.

Better to invest that money into learning how to approach women, become attractive etc. Many years ago I read The Game by Neil Strauss which helped me get started. Though it helped me get my first few dates, when I look back now, a lot of these techniques were too choreographed. You can follow James Marshall (The Naturals Lifestyle). His content has helped me a lot to become successful in the part of my life that involves women and romantic love.
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He just wants a lap dance, he said he does not want sex..
 
People spend more time on selecting a car than they do on finding a relationship.

1) Create a goal for your relationship

This involves actually writing everything down and BEING SPECIFIC

Specifying "blonde, beautiful, intelligent with a professional career and a great sense of humor" does absolutely no good if she is a lesbian.

What is more important? "Blond and beautiful" that has been passed around monthly or a woman that has honesty, integrity and loyalty that you can trust and build a relationship with?

2) Change your mind to change YOUR behavior

The have the ideal partner, you must BE the ideal partner. That means writing down your PERSONAL goal of what YOU want to become and then creating a project plan to accomplish that.

Remember that over 90% of the problems in your life are caused by YOU. You are your own worst enemy. This is why ALL the moneyed classes spend so much time on personal development as well as many different social settings as possible.

So cut your hair and hide the tattoos. Remove all piercings.

Wash, wax and vacuum your car and remove all stickers on it. Then add some type of "pro police" type of sticker on it. Small, near the license plate. You are an upstanding businessman.

Dress like a million dollars

Think like a million dollars

Have a business that looks like a million dollars (business cards on eBay are $20 a thousand) and UPS store boxes are $15 a month

Then go to places where professional or career or rich women go.

Visit the websites of the conference centers in your town. Note all the Trade Shows. Visit the websites of the vendors going to the trade shows, find an interesting product, write them an ask for a promo code for a free "expo only" pass. Attend the trade show and mingle with the crowd, find your female and converse.

Go to your chamber of commerce and get all the local magazines of what is happening to find places where you can mingle

For rich women, look for small concerts as well as museums and charities.

For healthy women, nothing beats the mind body spirit festivals

For having women chasing you, learn Reiki, Massage or Kinesiology. Men "healers" are always chased by women because they are so "caring and loving"

You get the idea.

Create a product that women will buy.

You.

Sincerely,

TheEye
 
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