Sorry for another post in a row but I really need to get this off my chest because it's something that I really struggled with and improved in over the years.
The majority of people start smoking becuase of the influence of friends. To be fully honest with you, I started smoking at the same time as all of my friends and we had a hell of a time as teenagers, hiding it from our parents, playing cool around other people and just thought we were invincible becuause we did something that was considered bad.
We are social beings and anything that grabs the attention of other people is so damn appealing to us. This also goes for alcohol and drugs, with the addition of being in a state of altered mind with those, unlike with cigarretes.
As I grew older I realized that smoking is not cool and isn't something that's necessarily going to make you stand out. As you meet more people, begin to be good at networking and socialising, you realise that absolutely no valuable friendships or relationships in your life were influenced by some of your addictions, in other words, people don't respect you just because you do the same thing as they do - smoke.
On the other side, some people may look down at you or stay away from you because you smoke - as you smell really bad and affect their health with passive smoking.
Try to look at smoking as an overall habit and what message you send to other people when smoking your ciggie around them. Do you really need to do it? Do you want to smoke? Does it make you happy or give you any type of benefit?
Maybe this gives you a wider perspective because it sure did make me focus on quitting. I know it's hard but if you commit, you can definitely be successful at it in the end.