She rejected me

[SonOfBhw]

I think u made mistake, without dating a girl asking to marry u? U had no chance, first u have to ask her for coffee or something like, that.

Now you have no chance even for coffee date, remember ur mistake and next time don't do it, no one will marry a guy w/o dating

No i didnt ask her to marry me as I m not old enough to marry neither have any thought of marrying in this age .i just told her my feeling .thats it

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One mistake most guys make is that they start hitting on girls / proposing her BEFORE she is attracted to them. See, by proposing to her, you just let her know how you feel about her - that's it. What can she do about it? And if she doesn't know you, suddenly you go and tell her that you love her, that will actually creep her out and push her away from you.

1 year forward we both kind of had feelings for each other but i didnt had guts to say her how i felt and neither she told me but a year changed everything and i told her my feeling in wrong time as i couldnot wait more for the right time

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At least you're already told her. So move on and deal with it. The girl in the world it's not only her.. find someone new.

Or don't give up yet, we human have a heart that can change. So fix your way to win her heart.

i aint doing anything to win her heart again.i will better sit home alone and cry whole day them trying to impress her

 

[deal with it]

tell her i was joking
u really believed it ?

then just move on. Good thing is you know now after proposing what she really thinks.
From experience im saying, it feels good.

 

[ThatSEO]

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i aint doing anything to win her heart again.i will better sit home alone and cry whole day them trying to impress her

You win some, you lose some! You didn't win her heart to start with,, brush yourself down and get out there.

 

[SonOfBhw]

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actually, telling girl you have crush on him will not work unless you are good-looking.. if you are just average give her mix signal, I learn it from my father who has 3 wife and currently has 3 girlfriends 2

i do have a good look and i am confident enough to attract girls and also i rejected so many girls just because i truely liked her..but nothing worked as every girl is different and i dont know what she is into

 

[slickbrick]

So, guys, I had a crush on 1 girl from 2017(i am not telling the whole story). I really liked her and 6 days ago I proposed her and she told me that she does not feel the same way which means she rejected me. But the problem is I am unable to get away from her and I still love her like before. But it's so painful to love someone who will not love you back. I am just sharing it coz it hurts to keep everything inside your head so wanted to share with you guys.

I am so sorry if I posted this in wrong thread or wrong forum but bhw has always been my favorite to share the things.

It's still a victory for you man!

1) You discovered you have balls
2) You discovered the truth
3) You are stronger than before

What's the best thing about having balls and being stronger?

You can replicate what you did, and if it goes bad you get bigger balls.

If it goes good, you might have a girl.

 

[Deleted member 813988]

It would be more painful to love, live, and have kids with someone who doesn't love you.
You just got yourself of a story that could take a wrong turn.

 

[SonOfBhw]

tell her i was joking
u really believed it ?

then just move on. Good thing is you know now after proposing what she really thinks.
From experience im saying, it feels good.

That will be extremely weird to tell someone that i was joking after almost a week

 

[K-Jacob D.]

wtf did I just read

What you read is right, don't worry even me find it hard to believe. but it the reality.

No way .. I dont believe that and if its the only thing that make her reject you, men you dont want that kind of girl.

Mate, you don't need to believe it. I'm giving a honest advice here, I don't care if you make the same mistake the OP said but this is not a TV drama. being direct will only work on real good looking guys.

Wait 3 wifes? You sure your name is not Yaqub? I mean J and Y makes a difference from europe to middle east

Yes it is hahahah

 

[TheBadOrc]

So, guys, I had a crush on 1 girl from 2017(i am not telling the whole story). I really liked her and 6 days ago I proposed her and she told me that she does not feel the same way which means she rejected me. But the problem is I am unable to get away from her and I still love her like before. But it's so painful to love someone who will not love you back. I am just sharing it coz it hurts to keep everything inside your head so wanted to share with you guys.

I am so sorry if I posted this in wrong thread or wrong forum but bhw has always been my favorite to share the things.

its because you waited 2 years

next time wait 10 years

i guarantee it will work

 

[stepdub]

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1 year forward we both kind of had feelings for each other but i didnt had guts to say her how i felt and neither she told me but a year changed everything and i told her my feeling in wrong time as i couldnot wait more for the right time

Just keep in touch with her. The first time I proposed my recent girlfriend, she got angry. I was still in touch but instead of obsessing about her, I spent time on starting my business, working out, meeting other girls etc. All this started making me look attractive to her. And after few months she's the one who proposed me. It's possible.

So just focus on yourself, and if she likes you she will come to you. If she doesn't, well, there are plenty of fish in the sea

 

[CPA Studio]

Just keep in touch with her. The first time I proposed my recent girlfriend, she got angry. I was still in touch but instead of obsessing about her, I spent time on starting my business, working out, meeting other girls etc. All this started making me look attractive to her. And after few months she's the one who proposed me. It's possible.

So just focus on yourself, and if she likes you she will come to you. If she doesn't, well, there are plenty of fish in the sea

And so like a beta you agreed to be her cuck, Is that how the story ends? Just curious

 

[BHSEONewb]

Crush to proposal, I don't know of any place where you go from zero to marriage. Hell, why would you want to commit to one person for your ENTIRE LIFE without dating her (or shagging her) first? I've had crushes on some HOT blondes before. I've dated them. I wish I didn't. Total waste of time and money. Sure it hurts now. It'll hurt for a few months. Maybe on the first anniversary too. But there are "plenty of fish in the sea" or as Rammstein sings in one of their songs "Plenty more horses to ride."

Go out, get drunk, and get some. I used my break-up as motivation and was able to move on that night!

 

[stepdub]

And so like a beta you agreed to be her cuck, Is that how the story ends? Just curious

How does that make one a beta or a cuck if the girl he likes already asks him out? What's your point here?

 

[NirvanaWolf]

Most of us go through rejections. It sucks and you just wanna go into a bubble of loneliness for getting rejected but she's not the last girl. Go out and be friends with more girls. Relationship is a 2 way street. No point in getting into one just for the sake of it. You'll find the right girl eventually.

 

[pravinlpatel]

wait// Create opportunity// wait

 

[TJSP]

One day, when she is married to a call center agent, she will see you in your Mercedes Benz and realize what a huge mistake she made. You need money and power brother. We all do.

 

[SirLouen]

I also had a crush, I saw Googlah, so sexy, so intelligent, so challenging, and now she crushed me with the last update
What shall I do?

Move on!

I invite you to join my cult of humus adoration

 

[llarasati]

i aint doing anything to win her heart again.i will better sit home alone and cry whole day them trying to impress her

Yeah do that until you can't cry again then move on and forget it.

Even that if she actually accept you i don't think the relationship will go better but who knows.

 

[nathanwebsolution]

come man nothing is stop for anyone , you should go for second chance

 

[BassTrackerBoats]

Weekend thread on Monday = exile to Digital Point for 2 weeks.

Govern yourself accordingly.