Whine fest

[cryptolife]

I can't be bothered to do shit. I'm 18, should technically be in college.

I know how to earn money via a blackhat method but i can't be bothered to start it. Too many shit feelings involved and not worth it.

2. I know how to make it big as a youtuber, i know how to get views but i can't be bothered to think.. like when i start i do it. When i think i can't begin if you guys know what I mean..

I want to work in a warehouse but i know i have too much potential.. there's a reason why i've stayed home for 6 months.. there's no way a 18 year old is well was 17 6 months ago at home. Must be a reason but atm all i want to do is EARN MONEY BUT I DONT KNOW, i want to just relax and fuck everything but i know this is bad?

 

[kiks]

It looks like you have issues with self-discipline

 

[Deleted member 923340]

I know how to be president. I just can't be bothered with all the politics.

 

[BassTrackerBoats]

I can't be bothered to do shit.

Then don't.

Stop whining and either or not do.

Had you been my child, and I have a handful that are older than you, I'd tell you to grow a pair and act like a man.

Not having you in my family does not get you that benefit.

 

[cryptolife]

I know how to be president. I just can't be bothered with all the politics.

EXACTLY

 

[MinionHorde]

Do you smoke weed ? If so that might explain it . If not I have other explanations regarding your behavior and can give you advice on how to improve yourself and get the best out of you .

 

[Deleted member 923340]

EXACTLY

 

[Excavation]

Why did you empty the thread now? If you know you know.

 

[sparkleprincess]

'relax and fuck everything' is a lot more fun with money... especially when you get older

 

[bartosimpsonio]

Yea it changed title, I was in the middle replying so here goes nothing.

 

[cryptolife]

no i was quiet aware of the joke.

 

[lacifitra]

That's just 1st World teenage angst.

 

[alexa_s]

Well your problem is not that unique, in fact it's quite common...There's a lot of books exclusively on that topic, like "The War of Art".

You have to negotiate with yourself like you do with someone else, because the part of your brain that is "You" and wants something, and all the unconscious processes that stop you from starting something and justify that it's okay to do stupid shit are different and are often in disagreement with each other. So make a deal with yourself to work for just 10 minutes daily for a week. Then increase it to 20 minutes next week. Goals like "Tomorrow morning I'll work for 6 hours" aren't really useful and are bound to lead to more disappointment, which is where the "shit feelings" you mentioned having come from.

The more time you spend not doing what you know you have to, the more poisonous inner dialogue accumulates, and the more "importance" you place on you working, which paradoxically puts you under more and more pressure and only makes you want to relax and distract yourself with stupid shit to feel better, paradoxically leading to even more bad feelings and low self-esteem.

Also, you mentioned staying at home for 6 months, if you spend that time barely socializing and staying in front of your PC that explains a lot, but the response I'll give is different in that case.

And finally, you may simply have ADHD. Have you taken a test?

Cheers

 

[Elin Dotsya]

When I was your age I was in the same boat. I sat around playing video games and didn't give a shit about much of anything, esp work related.
Before long you'll watch your teen years and 20s pass you by. You'll likely feel even more empty than before. That "I don't give a shit" mentality will
bite you in the ass one day when you realize, "holy shit, I'm almost middle aged, but can barely even tie my shoes properly." Decide what you want to do, set goals and do it.
Sooner or later you'll want to punch your teenage self square in the jaw for being such a little shit.

 

[cryptolife]

When I was your age I was in the same boat. I sat around playing video games and didn't give a shit about much of anything, esp work related.
Before long you'll watch your teen years and 20s pass you by. You'll likely feel even more empty than before. That "I don't give a shit" mentality will
bite you in the ass one day when you realize, "holy shit, I'm almost middle aged, but can barely even tie my shoes properly." Decide what you want to do, set goals and do it.
Sooner or later you'll want to punch your teenage self square in the jaw for being such a little shit.

shit i best get going. thank you for this