Sad shit

Are you sad and mopey all the time? You can really drag down the mood of others like this. You should focus on yourself and build some confidence. This can be done by getting in shape, making money, or anything you think will make you feel better. Confidence can do wonders. Confidence will bring friends to you.
 
In times like this, I always remember the analogy that my old man said to me about friends and women...

There will always be a new ferrari next year!

Meet some new people...
 
I try to contact my old friends, and no one replies.

They all have made friend groups, except me, and every day I feel sadder and sadder about this.

What would you do in my situation?
:/
Are you sure they aren't busy? I usually don't respond to people for days depending on what's going on, and I have a relative who takes weeks to get back to anyone.

But I've been in your situation before. I made an attempt to reach out to old friends back when I fell ill as a teenager. I was out of school for months, and during that time only one friend bothered reaching out to me. I later learnt that the reason my other friends were ignoring me was because a rumour spread that I had cancer, so nobody wanted anything to do with me since they thought I was dying. I went from being popular to people pretending I no longer existed.

After that experience, I no longer make the effort to make first contact with old friends unless they're good friends of mine I lost contact with.
 
real friends never deny access to anythink ...

tell them to f off and get new ones and if they try crawling back tell them stright why you so pee with them....

good luck m8 we all hate clicky clicky back stabbing mates it does hurt and we all go throw it.

and dont worry carmer will byte there arse trust me i promise.
 
I try to contact my old friends, and no one replies.

They all have made friend groups, except me, and every day I feel sadder and sadder about this.

What would you do in my situation?
:/
dont give a fuck and learn to appreciate your own company.
real friends will come when the time is right, and after appreciating your own company.

You must learn to not NEED friends, be OK with yourself first, else you'll end up with the wrong friends, and as a result you'll start creating threads about being sad for thinking friends don't like you back, while it's not your fault at all.

Rise.

I wish you good luck from the bottom of my heart.
 
Is this post real or a troll? Because the scenerio you just described is life my friend. Not sure your age, but when you were in middle school or highschool alot of people assumed they would have them friends forever, then you grow up and realize life isn't really like that. You might carry a handful of them with you later on in life.. but people grow up, have jobs, have families.. not every one has time to always chat it up. Youll likely find new friends as you get older, and go to college or start a new job (whichever phase of life you're in) and that void will be filled. Me personally, I could care less I have friends or not .. my family is more important to me than anything. Yeah, I enjoy the friends I have.. but I wouldn't lose sleep if for whatever reason they weren't in my life anymore.
 
Let me tell you 4 things -

1) Our Society is stuck in the FIXED MINDSET. Hence, from eventually they will ignore and sometime will judge and criticize you.

2) Those were NOT your real friends. A real friend would have stayed by your side, whatever the situation is even if there was an earthquake.

3) Instead of feeling down and getting depressed on it, look for success videos for example - How a nerd and a geek became one of the most richest people in the world, see how a man was denied 10 times from Harvard and was the only one to get rejected out of 24 people applying for a job @KFC. DON'T be like the common society s#its. BE DIFFERENT. Try to be the ONE.

4) When you HAVE money and wealth and everything in the world, those friends will come crawling to you. Mark my words. They will suck up to you and will praise you every time. But if you DONT have money and are lonely, NO one will bat an eye towards you. Do you why? Check No.1 point.

5) Get a sweet dog or cat. Why? Animals ARE MORE LOYAL and TRUSTWORTHY than our stinking society. A dog/cat will always remain faithful to you until its last breath. They would do anything to be with you and would be sad if your mood is sad. They will try to cheer you up, which is missing nowadays from most of the humans.

6) You talked about a girl that ignored you on the bus. Two things - 1) Bitches Be Crazy, 2) Most of the girls are NOT loyal. They will cheat and ignore for a guy with more and more money. So, do you see where this going? - Money!

EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD IS MONEY!

So, please my friend don't be sad over that crazy b#itch. I went through such a phase couple of years ago. Since then I don't expect anything from anyone. I DONT even have the BEST of relationship with my family also due to such toxicity.

Two Things
1) DON'T depend on anyone.
2) NEVER EXPECT anything from anyone.
If you do those both, you will get depressed many times. Not even medicine will help you.

Just don't feel sad for them because again they are stuck with the FIXED mindset. Most of the society is. Hence there are very less successful people in the world. Utilizing that time in updating yourself to a different level.

We are your friends here brother. :D

And if you need a girl to talk with or have some fun, hire a high-level escort and have fun with her. One important thing, trust me, if you treat them as a friend after having fun, they are the most fun and friendliest people. I am talking from experience here. Don't be just like - here is your payment, you can now leave. Instead, after hooking up, take her to a nice restaurant, talk to her about what is going on with your life and you will see, she will also open up about her life and she will be the best talker and listener. :)
 
Be a best friend for yourself, then you won't need any friends...!
 
Concentrate on making money. Real friends will stick around regardless of your status in life.
 
I later learnt that the reason my other friends were ignoring me was because a rumour spread that I had cancer, so nobody wanted anything to do with me since they thought I was dying. I went from being popular to people pretending I no longer existed.
How old were those friends ? They are really mean if they ignore a person who is actually in that situation.
 
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