Marry for love or money?

[Zerderh]

Well I have tried many times. All colors, short, tall, skinny, normal, phatty. I just suck at relationships.

Definitely understand this, is not like "im a bad person" or something like that but makes me wonder what is that is making it difficult for me.

Then I see "the couple" with 3years together and I cant comprehend how they manage to get there, since I cant break 6month barrier in a relationship lol

 

[sanjithsam]

Money comes today go tomorrow but true love stays forever.

 

[mickyfu]

Arguments. You get a better quality of argument when you are married.

 

[-EXP0SED-]

Love... I can obtain as much money as i feel when i am in a happy stable relationship

 

[GringoMonkey]

The women who I have spoken to who have been in a similar situation said it depends on if you start with money. If you do then love. If you dont have money, marry husband 1 for money, divorce him, get a huge pay off and then marry husband 2 for love and I know numerous women who did exactly that!

 

[AlpacaStocks]

Choose a partner who is responsible, mature, and conscientious. Get a partner who has a job and presentable. Choose a partner who has integrity. Apply this also to yourself to be attractive to men.

 

[Billy Batts]

Definitely understand this, is not like "im a bad person" or something like that but makes me wonder what is that is making it difficult for me.

Then I see "the couple" with 3years together and I cant comprehend how they manage to get there, since I cant break 6month barrier in a relationship lol

Same here, not a bad person most of the times, Help the elderly, train kids from the street but I got a heavy past and I have very low tolerance for drama in a relationship so if that happens I'm like, Fuck it, waste of time.

 

[aidenhera]

Not going to marry. If love was real then you wouldn't need marriage.

 

[Faridzago]

I would love to marry for a CANADA visa but divorce after that single is much better

 

[Zerderh]

Same here, not a bad person most of the times, Help the elderly, train kids from the street but I got a heavy past and I have very low tolerance for drama in a relationship so if that happens I'm like, Fuck it, waste of time.

Lol, thanks for sharing. I get where your coming from. "Im nice with people im not too personal with, but Im somewhat not patient enough with people that are close to me"

Thats me. Anyways, im not losing hope, but I know it may be difficult .

 

[Dor Ostenn]

If you weigh the pros and cons, use a little logic.... DONT GET MARRIED!!

Seriously. Think about it. Some stranger says something, a piece of paper, a government record, for what? A promise and a feeling. That's what. Bullshit.

Taxes. Pffft. Think!!

I'm not bitter...

You really know the true of life

 

[ankit03]

True love is hard to get. Almost 99% women/ men marry for money, to get citizenship if in abroad and to fulfill his/her sexual needs or making use of it but i think satisfaction is very important in life. They wont get satisfaction even if they marry the richer person.
I 'd prefer to live simple life. I want comedy, fun, enjoyement in life with friends. I think if you get fed in the trap of sex ,its difficult to get out of it. It is just like addiction.
There are thousands of other things to enjoy in life.

 

[rocknrolla247]

I wouldn't marry for anything, at least not until I want kids. When the time comes, I'd marry someone successful, not for the money, but because they need to have their own thing going, so they don't cling on me too much. I need my space.

 

[TechEdge Digital]

Find True Love

You can make money With Hard Work But Not love

 

[davids355]

True love is priceless. That’s for sure.

 

[Psh]

Definitely understand this, is not like "im a bad person" or something like that but makes me wonder what is that is making it difficult for me.

Then I see "the couple" with 3years together and I cant comprehend how they manage to get there, since I cant break 6month barrier in a relationship lol

Usually people break up around 3-6 months when the honeymoon phase is over and real life comes knocking. Then people assume "Oh, I don't love this person, my feelings are gone" and moves on to the next, repeating the exact same thing.

Not saying you are, I'm just sayin', relationships are WORK.

EDIT: Found an image that might explain it better haha.

 

[KeenCreator]

So people are searching for partner instead of knowledge at BHW nowadays.
But in my opinion I'll be in relationship only with that person whom i do love cz making money is possible anytime you want but getting respect for loving someone truly is rare Nowadays.

 

[Deleted member 720373]

Well I love money so......

 

[Zerderh]

Usually people break up around 3-6 months when the honeymoon phase is over and real life comes knocking. Then people assume "Oh, I don't love this person, my feelings are gone" and moves on to the next, repeating the exact same thing.

Not saying you are, I'm just sayin', relationships are WORK.

EDIT: Found an image that might explain it better haha.

God damn. Thanks bro, this is some real stuff... Honestly I dont think I was even able to end the honeymoon on my particular situations I was still crushing, but... Who knows what the hell happened lol.

Anyways, thanks for sharing this, definitely something to be aware of, most people will not have what it takes to make it work and thats why there are lots of failed marriages out there lol

 

[jazzc]

Fall in love with a wealthy woman. Problem solved.