Dealing with a breakup

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TheGreene said:
My Ex and i were together for 1 year and little more than half. I was forced to break up with her, because of her parents. We did not speak to one another ever since and saw her at a party and we were acting like we were never ever together., 1 year and half all gone. I got myself back into Internet Marketing and honestly helped me get rid of thinking about her 24/7 Kept me very busy. She found a new boyfriend After we broke up like 3-4 months later, and hopefully he's a good guy and takes care of her. But since she did this, I had enough self respect to get over her. Move on, ill tell you this much.. Everything really happens for a reason... Trust.
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This is heartening man. I do agree that everything happens for a reason and for GOOD. Do you mind sharing how it did good to you
 
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Gloria Parker said:
This breakup things happens to mostly.I never forget my love. Many people advised me to forget but I don't want to. You have to only remember good memories and only stop thinking about breakup things( breakup time). Try to busy yourself. Try to spend time with friends and your favorite task. Its really hard to do and manage yourself in front of people and hiding your expressions but try to laugh. Laugh will decrease your depression.
Join some clubs and other social program. Meet more people and you will find that you are not a single person that felling like that.
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so you are single
 
If you made sex with her in the past 48 hours than it's the oxytocin in your brain .

Keep yourself busy , don't lose your self esteem and do sport .
 
MyEra said:
This is heartening man. I do agree that everything happens for a reason and for GOOD. Do you mind sharing how it did good to you
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I was loosing who i was, I wasn't happy anymore, My default mood went from being happy to always anxious (Not sure how to explain) I stopped making money online... After I broke up I created a site that was hitting 5K a month (It did eventually get dicked by Google) But even accomplishing a goal like that was big, and opened my eyes to bigger and better things.
 
Hey, what if it is a true love? A true love of your life? Then go fight for her! Until it's not too late.
 
sportsmen said:
Hey, what if it is a true love? A true love of your life? Then go fight for her! Until it's not too late.
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Well I kind of feel that way. Then I think about the fact that right now she's with some other guy that she's chosen over me. I need to move on with my life, but I think I will leave the door ajar so to speak. Who knows what the future holds. But for now I can't have the negativity holding me down so I gotta get over the hurt
 
rancidricky said:
I've seen these threads here before and they normally get hate, but I'm drinking so I don't mind.
And yeah probably I should ask friends not people on an IM forum o_O But plenty of smart people here.

So anyway I wanna hear from anyone how you got over your ex. ideas etc.

I met her while she was traveling in my country, she returned home at the end of her visa, to get straight back with her ex.

While we were together we talked a lot about our plans to visit each other and stuff, I definitely thought she would wait. First girl I actually loved.

Just blew my mind how something that I valued so much seemingly meant nothing to her.

I still like her as a person but I can't reconcile that with how hurt I am from it. I couldn't really eat for a few days when I found out, but apparently I'm just dramatic.
It really seems as though she didn't care, although when we were together it was the opposite, so maybe I'm just telling myself that I don't know. she was a couple years older than me (im 21) and probably more experienced so maybe it's why it's a big deal for me not her.

so far my plan is just to throw myself into IM things I've been slack on.

would really welcome any ideas, and thanks if you read my rant lol
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My money is on either one of these:
  • She was always with her current partner, just cheated
  • She didn't want a LDR (perfectly reasonable)
  • She was fake with it all, just used you whilst she was in the country (more likely)
Either way, wouldn't get upset over it. Get tinder out and brag about all your cash you are stacking from your affiliates. Everyone knows, Money>looks lol.
 
I'm actually really impressed by some of the advice given here, very thoughtful and helpful. Well done, BHW, well done.

For me personally, I dated the same girl for 4 years and then seemingly overnight it was over. While it was the most painful and confusing time of my life, looking back it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I was in a major rut at the time of the breakup, and suddenly being alone afterward made me realize this (brutally).

BUT all this set me on the path of programming and IM. Now I know 5+ languages, will graduate from college with a degree in computer science in a year, and I'm also in the process of building up 2 authority websites and 3 niche websites.

Probably none of this would have happened if I was still with the girl. I certainly wouldn't be as knowledgeable/experienced as I am now, and it definitely would have taken longer to get where I'm going.

Though it (definitely) doesn't seem like it at times, life has a funny way of working these things out how they were meant to happen, and OP you will come out the other side of this a better person in every way as long as you focus on improving yourself and doing positive activities for yourself whenever you can (like the IM you're already doing).

Hang in there.
 
read reb pill books
stay away from "pickup szene".
pay for some hot a$$ hookers (dont know, which country you are in though.. )
"time spend in reality (!) with her" = time to get her ooff your system.

dont ask. I am old. kind of aged IG accounts old .
 
I am thinking about running dating offer on BHW advertising what you guys say ?
 
It is quite obvious what you should do. You should go and find her boyfriend and make man love to him.
 
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The best way to prevent a bad breakup is to not be in a romantic relationship in the first place.

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Poor guy, I don't even have any friends and I still receive messages.​
 
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