You should Never Give Up, I WONT!

CyberDad

CyberDad

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Introduction Of My Journey​


I'm unsure where to start, but I will discuss my journey. I have been here looking for information to become financially happy to provide better for my family. They are my biggest motivation and why my journey will bear success. My father passed away last year, and I suppose I lost it. I lost a lot of time and wanted to improve myself for those around me who depended on me.


"Self Reflection"

⚫ What could you have done differently?
⚫ Did you accomplish anything?
⚫ Did you learn anything?
⚫ How do you prevent undesired results from repeating?
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I couldn't stop thinking about how much time I missed with my kids this year because I was so depersonalized and frustrated. I felt that no matter what venture, It would eventually fail. I made excuses about why I couldn't or wouldn't do something. I was stuck on many limitations that I used to justify why things did not work out as intended. These limitations, though, were artificially created by nobody other than myself. That is right; your limitations mentally are typically the ones you place on yourself. Nobody is responsible for your IM journey or your journey in life other than you. People who make thousands of dollars could sit here and speak for days on their experiences and offer mentorship, but at the end of the day, it is up to us to walk that journey and grow. ​

Sadly, I'm so guilty of this; I'm ashamed. I hold 3 degree's in cyber forensics and two certifications, yet I can not find ways to bring extra income into my home. The biggest reason is that I got stuck in some magical fantasy land, thinking there was some "easy way." There is no easy way; I don't care what anyone tells you. Everyone who shares their successful journeys spent a reasonable amount of time experimenting and going through many different obstacles. I started realizing that self-reflection and accepting criticism are a part of our actual growth. Still, if we spend all of our time looking for some magical solution, we never take proper steps in our journey if we stop always to say we can't or to see how far someone ahead of us is. ​

My journey has been a lot of not walking because I genuinely needed to realize this.​
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Another reason for what I've learned so far is the next important lesson...............​



"Perspective"

⚫ It gives you a clear view of your goals and how to achieve them.
⚫It helps you identify opportunities and potential partners.
⚫ Allows you to develop a clear understanding of your customers
⚫ Allows you to think creatively and develop new ideas
⚫ It helps you stay motivated and focused on your goals

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I was always looking for that one magic bullet that would make me rich, make things so much easier, and provide better for my family. I was chasing that pot of gold at the end of the ​
Rainbow, thinking that one day I would find it. I was wrong; the pot of gold was always with me. I was just too focused on looking for something that was not there. Perspective is one of the most critical things we can have in our lives. It helps us see things for what they are, not what we want them to be. It allows us to see the beauty in life when everything around us is dark. It allows us to see the possibility of achieving our dreams when everyone tells us it is impossible. I was always looking at things from a negative perspective. I was always looking at something that I could not do rather than what I could do. I was always looking at something that I did not have rather than what I did have. That is not to say that I did not have anything; I had a lot. I did not see it because I was too busy looking for something I did not have.


"Ongoing Conclusion"

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I have started so many different areas I just have no real idea what to do. Honestly, I know I will eventually find something and stick with it. I know I'm done buying so many Books, that's for sure. I've just been doing Swagbucks and user testing here and there.

I have learned a lot about myself in the past year, and I have a lot to learn. I have not been successful in my IM journey, but I have not given up. I'm still here, and I'm still trying. I'm still learning, and I'm still growing. I'm not where I want to be, but I'm not where I was. I'm on a journey, and I'm enjoying the ride.

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"Skills And Software I Own"

Cyber Security/ Networking
People-oriented
Some Dev Stacks Front / Backend / AI
XEvil Business Edition
Web Sraping
Music Production ( I do this as a hobby and also volunteer to mix/master for church)
Various account creators
Own Two LLCs
I will have 5K Amazon Credits soon


Thanks for reading; I appreciate the community, truthfully......







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CyberDad said:
I hold 3 degree's in cyber forensics and two certifications, yet I can not find ways to bring extra income into my home.
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CyberDad said:
I have learned a lot about myself in the past year, and I have a lot to learn. I have not been successful in my IM journey, but I have not given up.
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Brother, this is the most important thing to you in the whole story.
I wish you success in life.
 
You have the winning mentality bro, Just continue like this nobody and nothing can stop you! Even if I don't know you personally I am proud that these kind of people still exist in the world that is sodom & gomor!
 
I truly appreciate everyone taking the time to message my IM journey; I hope this experience might touch someone else and help them. BlackHatWorld is very high quality, I have been in many groups, and if there is a legitimate way for someone to earn money, you'll find that here. This user base is imposing and supportive. Sometimes I'm not even sure this is the actual internet, granted the amount of toxicity you can find else where.

I own a life time subscription to XEvil / XRummer @SERP Tank.

I make my scrapers, but I am not as talented as some of the sellers, I think. I know enough to get things working and learn.
 
I am wishing your success bro, you have the potential but I am happy that you have realised that potential only is not enough.

Your success story begin here right now.
 
Thank you everyone for the support, I think I will buy a WIX page and blog about a lot of things I've experienced maybe mentally. *shrugs*
 
I did some research on our forums and one of the biggest things I've learned is to stay away from WIX LOL. I just purchased my domain name with the intentions of hitting a niche that is close to home for me. There is a community of folks with a disease that I go through daily that effects ones vision where they see static. I want to talk about my experiences and offer help. I think that health is always something worth investing in especially if I can truly help others and make some money. I already know it will take time but I think the reasons why I failed before was I wanted the shortcut route and guess what? There is no such thing. I have to find a theme that actually makes me happy though, this is going to be the tricky part....
 
It will lose its meaning if, like everyone, I suggest you do this and do that, but it takes a lot of courage to accept failures and criticism, and you have done that already.
I have learned that life is like a catapult; to hit the bull's eye, you must stretch its strings backward. If life pushes us back, we counterattack with full force.
 
CyberDad said:
I truly appreciate everyone taking the time to message my IM journey; I hope this experience might touch someone else and help them. BlackHatWorld is very high quality, I have been in many groups, and if there is a legitimate way for someone to earn money, you'll find that here. This user base is imposing and supportive. Sometimes I'm not even sure this is the actual internet, granted the amount of toxicity you can find else where.

I own a life time subscription to XEvil / XRummer @SERP Tank.

I make my scrapers, but I am not as talented as some of the sellers, I think. I know enough to get things working and learn.
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Thanks
 
You've got a good mix of useful and currently relevant skills. Remain focussed and just keep the grind and hustle going. Be relentless, presistent and consistent and you will keep growing and that growth will keep being your driving factor. Do not forget to also focus on your health, as the real wealth is in one's health. Wish you continued success.
 
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