You Really Dont Know What You Have

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Hi everyone, it is james wife shaunice again. I just wanted to say that the saying "you dont know what you have until you lose it" is VERY TRUE, (except in my case i get a second chance). I used to take james for granted, i used to argue with him about everything, and always threaten to leave, but when he was on his death bed for a whole month, i realized that i just wanted him laying next to me again. Then when he got out of the hospital the first time, he did the impossible and got up and started walking again, just so he could hurry and get back to work to help me with the bills. How could i ever have taken that for granted? I wrote this because when he gets back out of the hospital again this week, i want him to read this and know how much he really does mean to me and how much i love him. I never want to lose him. Thanks for reading
 
No offence but i think the continuous posting activities of your are somewhat suspicous. In other word, i doubt if you really are his wife or maybe this is a hacked account.

Anyway, I wish you and james all the best and i hope i am wrong.

Sorry if i were offensive
 
Well that is kind of offensive but i can understand. I am his wife, and i can easily prove it. Why would it be suspicious for me to post something on my husbands favorite forum about him? And really i am not posting frequently. But thanks for the good wishes
 
Well that is kind of offensive but i can understand. I am his wife, and i can easily prove it. Why would it be suspicious for me to post something on my husbands favorite forum about him? And really i am not posting frequently. But thanks for the good wishes

Yes please if you can prove us that you are really his wife, we are more than willing to help to be honest.

I am not rich but if this is legitimate, i will volunteer to help a little bit here and there
 
Well i am not asking for anything, i was just posting something sweet for my husband to read since he will likely be home tomorrow, but sure. I will call a mod tomorrow to verify
 
Hey. I'm kind of hung over so excuse my ignorance if I give off any but. I would rather let go of someone that needs taken care of who I have built a connection with than stay with them and suffer with them. Just my opinion.
 
Yes, you are definitely giving off ignorance with that comment.

That and a couple of other things.

Hey. I'm kind of hung over so excuse my ignorance if I give off any but. I would rather let go of someone that needs taken care of who I have built a connection with than stay with them and suffer with them. Just my opinion.
 
Hey. I'm kind of hung over so excuse my ignorance if I give off any but. I would rather let go of someone that needs taken care of who I have built a connection with than stay with them and suffer with them. Just my opinion.

You're being selfish, imagine if you were in trouble and everyone close to you decided to leave you, how would that feel ?

Edit : I wish you and your husband a great, healthy life
 
Yes please if you can prove us that you are really his wife, we are more than willing to help to be honest.

I am not rich but if this is legitimate, i will volunteer to help a little bit here and there

Check his old thread , she uploaded a pic of him @ bed with stitches.
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Yes, you are definitely giving off ignorance with that comment.

That and a couple of other things.

I know a few people right. If they left the relationship a long time ago they would have been much better off today. Except, they were too scared to let go and find something positive. To this day, they are still suffering with each other. What's the point in that. A relationship is supposed to make 2 people better. 6 billion of us here.
 
Being in a bad relationship is entirely different than being in a good relationship with someone who is suffering.

I know a few people right. If they left the relationship a long time ago they would have been much better off today. Except, they were too scared to let go and find something positive. To this day, they are still suffering with each other. What's the point in that. A relationship is supposed to make 2 people better. 6 billion of us here.
 
Yo, not so easy to do when you have ten kids with somebody !

I know a few people right. If they left the relationship a long time ago they would have been much better off today. Except, they were too scared to let go and find something positive. To this day, they are still suffering with each other. What's the point in that. A relationship is supposed to make 2 people better. 6 billion of us here.
 
A lot of the time people mistake relief for a renewed sense of appreciation. Then after a year all of the old problems come back.

You seem to have found genuine appreciation though.

Best of luck and health to you both.
 
Thanks a lot for posting this. Your story has inspired me to take better care of my loved ones and tried 10x times harder to provide them better living.

Don't you care what other negative people are saying. I don't know you guys personally, but you have my moral support.
 
Hi Shaunice, how are you? You must be going through the biggest test of your life. But don't worry. There always rises a very lovely day after the seemingly darkest night. Don't look west where you'll only find darkness, look East and you'll see a great light coming over the horizon!

And if you take my words a bit seriously, never threaten about leaving the relation... destiny actually brings about a situation where you're tested mightily. Of course when you keep the bind strong and work mightily towards not just keeping it strong, but also works equally mightily -- and lovingly -- to keep it ALIVE, then the same destiny rewards you both. I guess that your tests are over, and you both shall have the health and happiness back! So keep smiling both of you, and get ready, together, to welcome abundance in your lives.

It is done, so be it! Amen! :) God bless your Home, feel it dear sister!

@James,
You're really lucky to have such a strong soulmate who has pulled you out of the darkness so mightily, with HIS Grace ofc! With her, get back to the top! You'll do it! :)

God bless!

Hi everyone, it is james wife shaunice again. I just wanted to say that the saying "you dont know what you have until you lose it" is VERY TRUE, (except in my case i get a second chance). I used to take james for granted, i used to argue with him about everything, and always threaten to leave, but when he was on his death bed for a whole month, i realized that i just wanted him laying next to me again. Then when he got out of the hospital the first time, he did the impossible and got up and started walking again, just so he could hurry and get back to work to help me with the bills. How could i ever have taken that for granted? I wrote this because when he gets back out of the hospital again this week, i want him to read this and know how much he really does mean to me and how much i love him. I never want to lose him. Thanks for reading
 
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James was one of the first guys to give me really good advice on this forum that actually put me in the direction I wanted to go. Cannot give back enough for that.

Best wishes.
 
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