You are replaceable

You are replaceable! Let that sink in.

Before you start making sacrifices make sure you know exactly what ship you're in.

Don't think that because you have a relationship with someone that you consider to be a strong relationship means anything, it may not be reciprocal

As soon as the ship starts to sink you'll come to realize that there aren't enough safety boats and you aren't gonna get one

The thing is you could've helped with building the ship and you may think it's unfair.

Well, let me tell you something.

LIFE IS UNFAIR.

And I'm not saying ''don't trust people'', I actually encourage you to trust people, but learn to give your trust only when someone prove themselves to be trust worthy

Even with that being said you're still gonna take a risk, It's always going to be a risk, so you have two choices.

I'm either gonna trust this person knowing that there's a risk to be abandoned by them and it may happen at some point.. OR

I'm not gonna trust anyone because they may hurt me, which leads to unhappiness and loneliness..

STOP WASTING YOU TIME ON OTHERS.

Invest in yourself, take care of yourself, spend time with yourself, listen to yourself, have fun with yourself, you don't need others to feel good with yourself.

Be so mentally strong that when something like this happens you are already prepared and you know how to handle it.

You'll end up talking to yourself and realizing that you have no true purpose, that what you've done your whole life was always for others but never for YOU!

When was the last time you did something for you?? Really?

You're demeaning yourself by not caring enough about yourself.

So stop wasting your god damn time and start doing something with your life.

Sit down, turn everything off and have a mature conversation with yourself.

Not only you'll acknowledge all the things you've done wrong but you'll be more clear about what you wanna do with your life.

You're the most valuable thing for you. Literally, so how come you don't care about yourself as much as you care about others.

How come you can do things for others but never for you?

Doesn't that bother you? That someone can have that much power over you? That your happiness and well being depends on others?

Winners win and losers lose, that what differentiates winners from losers.

You can't be in between, you can only be a winner or a loser.

You can't be a winner if you're in this position which means you are a freaking LOSER.

If you want to be a Loser your whole life keep doing what you're doing.

But to become a winner, you have to change your mindset and your priorities. Come up with some values and principles that you can't break.

If someone breaks your values, it doesn't matter who they are you gotta distance yourself.

This message was mainly for me, but I know there are a lot of people in the same position.

I can be anything in this life but a LOSER.

Very optimistic!

Quality reminder. Great post & words!

This guy has been through a lot. I fully understand you man.

your wife can replace you after divorce. stop watching porn

Op is missing the essence of life succinctly captured by JFK. " It's not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country". The evidence that you love is that you give.

Your kind of typewriting is replaceable.
I got bored after line 2.

Brickbat1 said:

Op is missing the essence of life succinctly captured by JFK. " It's not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country". The evidence that you love is that you give.

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You were right. At the time, I didn't understand the meaning of altruism or virtues. I was hurt, and I had reasons to be. I felt used by most people around me, who took advantage of my kindness and willingness, leaving me with nothing. I was doing things for others not out of noble will, but because I was afraid of dealing with myself.

This post holds a lot of weight. The inner revolt I experienced back then led me to value my existence. It is, thus, the symbol of the beginning of that journey.

I completely forgot about this. It's been almost two years. However, I am genuinely surprised by the traces of wisdom I had even back then. Compared to now, I had a primitive mind, having read very few books. Yet, to my surprise, I possessed what some would call intuitive wisdom—the type of wisdom specific to someone who has not refined their reason and judgment through study.

It's been almost two years of growth, during which, like a thirsty man who found water in the desert, I drank continuously from the knowledge and wisdom of the greatest minds to exist.

I still don't feel prepared to serve others. I feel that my virtues aren't strong enough just yet.

Just as this post symbolizes the beginning of a man who found the courage to give himself a destiny, may this comment symbolize the beginning of a man who makes of his destiny the destiny of others.

MAdriven said:

You were right. At the time, I didn't understand the meaning of altruism or virtues. I was hurt, and I had reasons to be. I felt used by most people around me, who took advantage of my kindness and willingness, leaving me with nothing. I was doing things for others not out of noble will, but because I was afraid of dealing with myself.

This post holds a lot of weight. The inner revolt I experienced back then led me to value my existence. It is, thus, the symbol of the beginning of that journey.

I completely forgot about this. It's been almost two years. However, I am genuinely surprised by the traces of wisdom I had even back then. Compared to now, I had a primitive mind, having read very few books. Yet, to my surprise, I possessed what some would call intuitive wisdom—the type of wisdom specific to someone who has not refined their reason and judgment through study.

It's been almost two years of growth, during which, like a thirsty man who found water in the desert, I drank continuously from the knowledge and wisdom of the greatest minds to exist.

I still don't feel prepared to serve others. I feel that my virtues aren't strong enough just yet.

Just as this post symbolizes the beginning of a man who found the courage to give himself a destiny, may this comment symbolize a man who makes of his destiny the destiny of others.

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Have you returned after 2 years to answer this thread?

Satanic_Frozen said:

Have you returned after 2 years to answer this thread?

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Yes.

No one is replaceable.
They might replace you with someone else but it’s not going to be you.

very good post, yes everyone is replaceable.