WTF Is Life About ???

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OK this post is way of what the forum is about but someone please tell me what life is about why is it such a struggle,I cant make a dime at IM plus because ive tried so hard ive been neglecting the most beautiful women a man could wish to have she was my partner for 11 years but we parted 9 months ago and im still devastated about this. now im a positive guy and a fighter but now even i cant understand life and it gets hard every day to cope so WTF.

One consultation tho i have custody of my 9 year old daughter whom truly is a gift from GOD and i love her so much.

Take a look. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fO6c3z7UI-U


So friends if you have a partner that you might be neglecting Please Please don't, take time out to do things with them and i wish you all a great festive season.
 
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Life is all about LoVe <3
First of all Love happens for one time and it lasts forever.Love never dies.
I will suggest all of you that before marrying or making any physical relation,spend atleast 3 years with your spouse..And judge him by analysing him what he\she says in front of all public or whether she\he playing a double faced game.The reason why all afraid to speak in public is that there hidden face migth get seen. some afriad because they feel shy.That shyness should not be there.Whatver she\he is ,it should be clear and open in front of all..
 
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One consultation tho i have custody of my 9 year old daughter whom truly is a gift from GOD and i love her so much.
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I think you answered your own question.
 
For me life dont have any script,the only rule is learn to be in equilibrium on what surrounds you and experience all the possibilities.

Anyway for anyone that lived enough knows that life is not easy,you will fail,you will hurt people that you didnt want,but as long as you learn with your mistakes and go on,you can become a better person.

One of the quotes from Kung fu panda 2 is that Your past dosent define what you are,is what you define to be on your present.

Other thing that most should people learn is that you only start giving value to something,when you loose it.
 
Life is about evolution, eventually the strongest will survive and GOD's experiment will come to an end.

In the meantime you can enjoy love, music, books, wife, children, your own garden, concerts, ski, ocean and bloody revolutions.
 
What's life about? Hell, I'm 55 and still don't have the answer to that question, you've got lots of company in that boat I'm sure. The big trophy fish that got away happened to me 13 years ago and it took me years before I got her out of my head, ya pretty pathetic of me I know. The fastest way to get her out of your system is to find someone else to replace her, someone else to focus your attention on. Once you find your new love, life will be good again I'm sure of it.
 
Buddy we are on the same boat... Only difference is I'm single and you aren't... I have seen a lot of shit in my life... Never got love from my parents... At one point I felt like killing myself... My life is hopeless and I only living to keep my body and soul together..
 
There's a hidden gem of great advice in this thread...If you've been plugging away at IM 16 hours a day, trying everything you can think of, and you still aren't making it, maybe you should get another source of income (job) and keep working at IM in your spare time.

The women in our lives want partners, and you can't be a good partner if you're on your PC every waking hour of the day. You can't be a good partner if you're not earning a decent living. Financial desperation leads to bad decisions, silly attempts to make fast money, most of which will fail. You need to approach IM with a level head, a smart long term plan, and some patience. If your financial situation doesn't afford you these privileges, take a step back and regroup.

Most importantly, if IM is not allowing you to love and appreciate your wife, girlfriend, kids, family, etc, then do something else. The "internet lifestyle" is not so much fun when you're living it alone in a one bedroom apartment.
 
Meaning of life is.....

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I live life with an end goal of bringing happiness to as many people as possible. I think life is about feeling truly Happy, even if just for a few moments. If I died after the first time I made love to a woman, I would have died happy.

You will be happy again. You might not be happy every day of your life, but there will be at least 1 more night of happiness for you, and the hard times in life will make you appreciate that happiness more.
 
The purpose of my life is to leave the world a better place for those who follow after me.
Keep your head down, work hard, and learn from your failures and turn them into positives.

In general though, life is about SEX. That's it.
 
songer said:
There's a hidden gem of great advice in this thread...If you've been plugging away at IM 16 hours a day, trying everything you can think of, and you still aren't making it, maybe you should get another source of income (job) and keep working at IM in your spare time.

The women in our lives want partners, and you can't be a good partner if you're on your PC every waking hour of the day. You can't be a good partner if you're not earning a decent living. Financial desperation leads to bad decisions, silly attempts to make fast money, most of which will fail. You need to approach IM with a level head, a smart long term plan, and some patience. If your financial situation doesn't afford you these privileges, take a step back and regroup.

Most importantly, if IM is not allowing you to love and appreciate your wife, girlfriend, kids, family, etc, then do something else. The "internet lifestyle" is not so much fun when you're living it alone in a one bedroom apartment.
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I agree with all of your post except the ending. I very much enjoy living in a small one bedroom apartment alone. It works better for me. I was married and did lose my wife due to the internet because I am addicted, but it was a mutual decision in the end. I have major social anxiety issues and I don't like dealing with the outside world on a regular basis.

I am very happy with my life right now. I am not rich, I basically have no friends and nobody to talk to on a regular basis. But I am happy. I love women more than anything in the world, so eventually I would like to find some women to date, but I don't think I will ever be able to settle down with 1 woman. It just isn't what I am made for. 5 years from now I want to be in India, 6 months later in China, 1 year later Japan etc. I need to be alone to be truly free.

A 1 bedroom apartment can seem like a luxury castle to someone off the streets.

Living alone sounds depressing to some people, but sounds like freedom to others.
 
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I agree with all of your post except the ending. I very much enjoy living in a small one bedroom apartment alone. It works better for me. I was married and did lose my wife due to the internet because I am addicted, but it was a mutual decision in the end. I have major social anxiety issues and I don't like dealing with the outside world on a regular basis.

I am very happy with my life right now. I am not rich, I basically have no friends and nobody to talk to on a regular basis. But I am happy. I love women more than anything in the world, so eventually I would like to find some women to date, but I don't think I will ever be able to settle down with 1 woman. It just isn't what I am made for. 5 years from now I want to be in India, 6 months later in China, 1 year later Japan etc. I need to be alone to be truly free.

A 1 bedroom apartment can seem like a luxury castle to someone off the streets.

Living alone sounds depressing to some people, but sounds like freedom to others.
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Sounds like we are kindred spirits. I also have severe anxiety issues, which is why I left sales for SEO.
A quiet room with just me, some Coltrane, and a computer is all I ever want or need.
I'm a few months from the 1 bedroom apartment, but can't wait to be completely alone.
 
I divorced atfer 12 years marriage and being together for 17. That was nothing compared to not living full time with my 4 and 5 yo kids. Next, there mom decides she wants to move and take the kids 1,700 miles away. After a year long court battle, she gets her wish. That was a year ago.

I dont know the point of life, but I have learned to pick my battles, while rolling with the punches. I have also learned life is not only about your children, you definately have to make room for YOU. I could continue fighting for my kids and trying to make life hell, but that serves no one.

You seem like a good guy and your daughter is wonderful. Looks like your doing ok, why bother questioning. Just live & enjoy.
 
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