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Women drives me crazy!

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by darkasrzerotwo, Aug 23, 2010.

  1. darkasrzerotwo

    darkasrzerotwo Registered Member

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    I don't know why women likes to pressure men. Everyday my girl pressuring me to get married. Today she give me hint that she likes a handbag. It is not that I do not want to buy things for her but in my condition now I'm not financially ready. The reason I'm lurking into bhw and IM is because of her (3 months now and managed to get $50 only). To get married and to buy stuffs for her. I know making my way with IM is not easy and its require a lot of time and effort...god, please give me more endurance to achieve my success.

    What I need now is some support and inspiration from those black hatters that have overcome their hard times and now have financial freedom.
     
  2. Flurbuff

    Flurbuff Regular Member

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    I don't know about your specific situation and I don't know what's in your girl's heart. But, in my personal experience if a girl pressures for anything like marriage or shopping crap then that's a big red flag to stay away. High maintenance girls are far too much trouble. And more often than not you will never truly know if they like you for you or they just like your money.

    Strangely enough this has caused me to prefer women that are not extremely attractive. I tend to have a lot more trust for girls who look average and have actually held a job. Women that get by on nothing but their looks and getting men to buy things for them just seems like a big flashing warning sign.

    Reminds me of a friend I have that had real bad girl trouble past few years. He was with this fairly attractive girl with a nice rack and everything. Problem was she didn't contribute much to the relationship. She never held a job and was always getting fired or quit. She didn't clean, cook, or do any chores. So he was holding a full time job, paying all the bills including her truck payment, and doing the cooking and cleaning. Now he's with a girl that's not nearly as good looking. However, she cooks, cleans, and has her own money.

    Ok I kinda rambled there. Anyways, $50 isn't a lot for IM, but it's a start. It's better than being -50$. My first 3 months of IM I made maybe 20$ or 30$. I didn't even know what SEO was then. Once I learned what to do things went better.
     
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  3. mani911

    mani911 Junior Member

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    if shes fat through in some food :p

    if she isn't take away her food "

    she'll be alll fine
     
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    Codythebest Senior Member

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    Go gay. You might not have those pressures anymore....
     
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    Daniel0cean Regular Member

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    hooray for gay :D
     
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    trafficsource Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    just move out to the USA :)
     
  7. CrazyEarner

    CrazyEarner Regular Member

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    Bitches are everywhere. PERIOD
     
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    my first thought was... well..













    run away
     
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    Black_captain Newbie

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    go to the god!!!!!
     
  10. benpari

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    I'm going to agree with what has already been said here-leave her.

    Otherwise you need to grow a pair of balls and take control of the relationship. Seriously, call bullshit on her next time she tries to pressure you into doing something.
     
  11. leadi

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    So much from you folk.... cut the slack... hun just let her see reason and you might just be surprised what she would turn out to be...
     
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    lol...
     
  13. lawndog

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    Yea man, you need to take control here. If your the kind of person that lets a girl dictate your actions, I can't really see a future in IM (it can be pretty ruthless if you really want to make anything...).
     
  14. givemelove

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    This is not what you asked for but still, Dude, just rethink whether you want to live with this or not !! your whole life would turn into crap, because for a girl like that, WANTS never finish, you give her a neckless, and she will want TWO more, more expensive ones.
     
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    Successfull man: who can earn more than his wife can spend. :D
    Successfull woman: who can find such a husband.:p
     
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    you need to find a better woman
     
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    Buy her a replica?
     
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    tell her, you are not interested in marriage now... and if she can't understand, let her go.. there are more important things in life then reproducing humanity... for example: link building.
     
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    wannabie Elite Member

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    Have a wank, its cheaper, its quicker and your giving yourself and Mr Winky a present at the same time
     
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  20. zebrahat

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    Get used to the complementary game between the sexes. Elementally, men are phallic beings (sticks), and women are apertures (holes), on many levels. Men want to probe and penetrate women, in the immediate sense physically, but also relationally (which is why we keep asking "what do women want?"---we're probing what's inside their heads).

    Women tend to want to receive things from men, at first relationally (as in attention, commitment, or a man's success), after which she gets interested in receiving him physically. So the girlfriend is not acting unusual in the slightest. You just have to determine if there's any real love at the end of the vortex that is her aperture. If she's just a vacuum, sucking you into her hole and giving nothing back, take your stick elsewhere.