I am probably like most people, I can't seem to find my place amongst all the sharks on BHW. I mainly believe this is due to my lack of experience in a lot of areas. I read through methods all the time and there always seems to be an area or two where I have no idea what the poster is referring to. Luckily for me I'm able to realize these short comings and avoid throwing money at a method without fully realizing the concept.
I believe it's just a matter of time before I will fall into my place in the IM world as long as I stay motivated to keep learning and researching opportunities.
The one piece of advice that I have read on hear hundreds of times is "TAKE ACTION" and I agree 100% with this advice, but in my situation I like to understand everything before just taking action.
You are doing that most people do. Since you do not understand everything you do nothing.
Let me tell you how I started. I got a 15 day trial of "Web page Maker" and built a site with it targeting pet products. I chose "natural flea remedies" because there were a lot of searches for it (I didn't even know the term SEO at the time, I was ignorant and clueless).
It was decent looking for a crappy site, and I researched every method of treating fleas known to man from food grade diatomaceous earth to essential oils.
I had masterfully crafted articles explaining each method, and added adsence to the site, waiting for the money to roll in.
The site was a great success, ranked quickly, lots of traffic, but no money came in. No one clicked on my ads for some stupid reason. I tried every ad placement scheme I could find and never made a dime from that site.
It was a success, but a flaming failure.
Why?
Because I had to learn.
I had to learn that "natural flea remedies" is not a buying word. People are not looking to spend money who search for that.
I had to learn that when you give a searcher the solution to his problem for free, they will not click on ads.
I had to learn that "evergreen" niches existed. That once someone came to my site, they solved their problem, there was no reason to re-visit my site.
So using my new insights, I built another site, a tech site. Helping people fix their computers, and put adsense on it. It was ugly and it made money. So much money that I decided to buy traffic for it. At $1200 a month, Google decided to enforce their TOS and ban my account for buying traffic.
I had to learn not to be greedy, and so it goes.
My whole point is:
UNTIL YOU DO SOMETHING YOU KNOW NOTHING, and you have a fuck of a lot to learn.
Doing something is on the job training. You need that to succeed.