Why are some people so difficult to work with?

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Just a little rant for the lounge...

I’m buying a service from this guy and I acted in a friendly manner. But everything I say, he thinks I’m attacking him or being rude to him? :/ It’s not from this forum.

I’m buying a service from him for $0.25 each service. I even paid him and thank him. I was being polite and everything.

And because of me being nice and polite, he thinks that I’m not taking his deal seriously and tells me I’m treating him like a piece of meat? 0-0

And now he threatens me by telling me that he has my information from my pay ID and also wants to report me for not treating him seriously or with respect.

I probably won’t gain anything out of this thread but I don’t have any friends to rant to, so here ya go.
 
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Oh man don't get me started. I was so fed up with working with other companies and people all over the world I cut the headache out and hired in house. Best decision ever. I know it's not for everyone but it soon will be! We work hard, really hard... but it's worth it!
 
I would be mad if I were you and tell him to gtfo Lol if he's selling his service via third party site like fiverr or seoclerks, you can report him for being a dick though.
 
Back in the day, I faced a similar problem. I turned into a slave to whom I thought had great business ethics and innovation. If only I used my judgement of character, I'd been better off.
Like entrepreneur Rohan Oza emphasized, one must work with great people, not just anyone. Only with great people can you make money; that means people who are willing to listen. Not everyone has empathy and open mind, and those are the worst.
 
All people can be obnoxious at times, even if you didn't do something to get him mad. If the service is very very good, keep buying from him. If you can get from other places, change the service. Have minimal contact with the dude when buying from him, if you stay with him. I hate rude people as well. I encounter people in my offline ventures who are toxic or talk to much and I just remain calm or neutral or don't waste my time with them.
 
To be honest it is hard to be polite when you sell service for few usd :)
 
I hope you are not buying just a single service for $0.25 :D ... I would just find somebody else and move on ... tell him you would sue him for invading/hacking/attacking your privacy by using PayPal's info. The guy probably wouldn't even know the laws/rules ... :D
 
"A little kindness goes a long way."
I actually have few friends and online colleagues that have the same issue. I myself have same issue with customers and other service providers.
I guess you gotta pick services more carefully. Go for ones with higher price. Higher price doesn't necessary means better quality but it is a safe bet.

For example, I find myself very professional and kind to all my customers and potential customers. Thats just the way I roll.
But I have PMed quite few members of BHW who are offering their services and I am shocked, that's all I can say.

Wish you more luck next time.
 
Let me guess backend Reputation services?

Not surprised the guy is an ass selling services for $0.25 a pop

That's gotta be hard to make a decent buck, Sheez poor guy

I understand you 100%. People can be very hard sometimes. Vacations and the occasional drink helps.
 
Move on, save your nerves.
Be nice to someone who appreciate you and your money
 
Well don't back him any response or answers just place a negative feedback against him and post it on thread too.
It happens in both while busying or selling something, you'll get the people like this so before going with anyone just check there reviews status and everything. It's a part of business and life too, you'll get same types of people in both ways. Be chill, move on and think that you save here otherwise you'll get in loss with more funds.
 
life is mystery and people become weird . give him a lesson and he will thank op
 
I would rather avoid such people as much as I could. Peacefulness if myself matters the most.
 
Social God said:
m buying a service from him for $0.25 each service
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stop business with for a while , he may change and value you. What service you are buying $.25 curious though.( I can guess it since you are in social world) anything else.
 
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