Which Network as an advertiser?

I am just beginning to investigate this, so I am a bit ignorant about the particulars but I think this might be one of the best places to ask this question. I have a dating website which I need to promote so I would like to advertise through an affiliate network. It is a paid membership site and I would like to set up a way to pay affiliates a percentage of each members monthly fees, so that affiliates are encouraged to continue promoting the site on an ongoing basis. i don't know if any other dating site does this. I know many people here have promoted different products through different networks, but if you were using a network to advertise your own business, which would you choose, and why? Are there any of them you would not allow to promo your money sites? Which ones and why not?

Well most networks today are on shitty Direct Track software so you can sign up with one and have your offer cross published if you like.

I'm a little partial to CPA Empire for an advertiser account, they are capable of huge traffic to your offer from Day 1 and they seem to be easy to deal with regarding fraud.

They are also a little pricey to get in the door, about $7000 as a deposit. It's fully refundable and is only to ensure affiliates actually get paid for the leads.

Other networks who want the business may go as low as a few hundred dollar deposit, but I typically subscribe to the philosophy go big or go home.

Well if I went that big I'd have to go home because I'd have practically nothing left over for anything else. I don't have the luxury of being that $elective. Which ones require only a few hundred, and are any of them using the direct track software? Cross-promotion would be a good thing in my case.