I'm a noob and I can relate to not knowing where to start. Thing is though, this hole blackhat thing does take some work, everyone has to do it and not everyone wants to give up all their knowledge and spell it all out for others. I think searching out answers is part of the process and rewarding too. You've come to the right place to start.
Things that have worked for me:
Downloading the ebooks and pdfs that people link in the forum. A lot of these are written for beginners and lay out a fairly easy to follow process. If you already have some SEO knowledge you'll be able to jump into these and understand them fairly quickly.
Reading a lot of blackhat blogs has been a big help. Find one you really like, follow all the blogroll links and also go into the comments and check out the sites of people who have left insightful comments. Then repeat. You'll find there are a TON of blogs that aren't listed in the search engines but have great information. It's time consuming. There's a lot to soak in but it's worth it.
Keep on reading this forum and reading blogs and you will learn. It takes some time but it's really worth it. You can come to the forum and instead of asking "I have no idea where to start, what do I do?" you can ask "I did X and tried Y and am thinking of trying Z, does anyone have experience using Z in order to accomplish _______ ?" You'll find that a question which comes from an educated position, asking for specific info is very likely to be answered by someone, because they see you've worked hard and are stuck and just need a nudge.
That's just my opinion though. I'm fairly new to the forum. I'm experienced in SEO but not so much in the ways of blackhat. I'm learning, I'm studying, I'm getting inspired and devising an action plan.
I think you've already found maybe the best place to learn, so keep looking around.
For some other places to look, try SEObook and SEOmoz for SEO learning and Blue Hat SEO to start getting introduced to the gray zones. Start exploring the links at that site and you're on your way.
And when you find something useful in this forum, be sure to leave a Thanks. It helps pay forward for what you're learning and builds your karma.
Good luck, have fun!