What's your major distraction?

Hate? It's an advice because I wish y'all the best, hun :) Even the ones who don't feel like they're worthy to be loved. Or they're scared AF and trying to be a man in the wrong ways. But, guess trolling is easier for some, other than thinking with their head :) Nope, not with the one between the legs.

Here's some real advice, "hun": Keep your passive aggressive hate out of the forum if you want to stick around. This community is about co-operating and we're so serious about it that we even have an automated warning option for people who behave like you. Click, click, boom. So you best keep that in mind.
 
Women and society. I feel you when you say boys college.

I was in a boys school from 2nd to 10th grade, and I know the drought this creates on your chest (currently in a combined college).

However, I'm tightening my focus on IM. Try to get control. Scoring chicks seems really easy for me, and comes naturally. And it's really easy for me to get carried away.

Heck, I'm juggling about 4 girls as of now and planning on going into a relationship with them.

At the same time, an inner voice tells me to fuck these feelings out of my life.

So yeah, I'm trying. Writing more, focusing more, and moving away from distractions.

Plus, trying to be self-sufficient, the mindset where you know your happiness doesn't rely on some chick who gives you dopamine and a broken heart when leaving.

You get jealous? I found unfollowing on Insta and Facebook to be the solution. After awhile, you'd master ignoring their posts and feeling jealous. Or at least, that's what happened to me.

Cheers.

~ hasan7707
 
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Here's some real advice, "hun": Keep your passive aggressive hate out of the forum if you want to stick around. This community is about co-operating and we're so serious about it that we even have an automated warning option for people who behave like you. Click, click, boom. So you best keep that in mind.
No hate on my side. Just an opinion and a free advice for someone who can (maybe) be their better self. 't was my best intention. It is a public forum. I try not to go offtopic, to respect people and the rules of the forum. It is the Lounge after all.

I do not report others, especially if I just don't like when people think differently. I find it weak. However, if they do report me and I actually broke a rule, put the warning. That's reasonable and fair. Have a feeling that just happened - he enjoyed you trying to send me a pre-warning a little too much by liking the post, so obvious.

Still, I didn't learn anything new from that message because, both you and I registered at around the same time, 8-9 years ago. Buh-bye now.
 
No hate on my side. Just an opinion and a free advice for someone who can (maybe) be their better self. 't was my best intention. It is a public forum. I try not to go offtopic, to respect people and the rules of the forum. It is the Lounge after all.

Expressing ideas and opinions does not require mass insulting at all - it can be done without. You know that, all that remains is to stick to it. I don't think you were unable to act properly in this thread, I do think that I really had to prod your willingness to do so in the future. That's why I never commented on your opinion itself - in the big picture your and my opinions are irrelevant. But the way we handle ourselves as parts of the community is highly relevant.
 
Expressing ideas and opinions does not require mass insulting at all - it can be done without. You know that, all that remains is to stick to it. I don't think you were unable to act properly in this thread, I do think that I really had to prod your willingness to do so in the future. That's why I never commented on your opinion itself - in the big picture your and my opinions are irrelevant. But the way we handle ourselves as parts of the community is highly relevant.
I understand all of that. I used a term IMO. Guess I should be even more careful with what I write so, thanks for pointing it out. I will not stop expressing my opinion but, I could do better so people get my point the right way and don't feel called out. Don't wanna go this far from the topic anymore, I want to respect the OP's thread theme as well.
 
Woman, Netflix, Draughts, Family & Friends who call me on the phone for any dummy computer or tablet or connection problem...

The top is when you ask something to try to find the problem and they just answer "yes, of course :D" and you lose your time to finally find that they didn't ever understand what you have asked :devil:
 
Stop using Instagram OP
#BrosBeforeHoes
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But sometimes...You know what I mean ;)
 
YouTube and Instagram definitely. Both are good and that is a problem sometimes. I am usually distracted when I do not have too much work. When I have a lot of work, I am aware I have to finish it within the time limit, and then I am focused on the job only.
 
Netflix (movies and tv shows in general)
and Youtube (ancient history- technology in ancient history- Elon Musk and spacex- colonizing mars - some aliens videos- trending tab :) - short films - Sci-Fi in general )
 
My abusive ex & migraines.
Stoic meditation helps to get rid of it for a bit though, so I at least have 2-3 extra hours of focus per day.
 
Girlfriend,

and House Chores, ooohh the never ending house chores
 
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