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What to do?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by torten95, Jul 5, 2017.

  1. torten95

    torten95 Newbie

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    Hey guys,

    I was listening to video on Youtube, a lot videos actually on topic of how to success in life, how to start, what to do out of your life, all of that and I get it. I get it that's hard, smart work, doing something you enjoy doing will get you there, you just have to keep going, but I never succeeded to find out what do I like, what am I passionate about.

    Right now I am assistant restaurant manager with 21 years of life and that's ok for now. Even that's not my goal, my goal is much greater than that. I want to have something on my own. I just can't figure out what that something is. I'm going to work everyday, work I do not like and I feel like I'm butter stretched on too many bread.

    I'm trying to figure out everything. When I have free time I like to read about investing, internet marketing, I spend hours and hours on Youtube trying to figure out who am I now and what I want to be in the future.

    There are so many options out there, but I'm afraid to do anything real. I tried with internet marketing, I gave up, Youtube, I gave up, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, none of them worked out for me.

    Things I like about myself are: I like to inspire other people, I like to talk to other people, I like to meet new people and make friends. As well, learn new things everyday, watch videos about universe, stars, etc.

    All of that makes me happy and calm and I feel satisfied. However, now I feel lost and depressed.

    Have you ever been in that situation?
    How did you find out what would you like to do?
    Have you already at that point of life where you like what you do for living and that makes you happy?
     
  2. MisterF

    MisterF Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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    You have tried plenty things, none worked and you gave up.....

    Why did none work out for you ?
    Did you change what you were doing and try again ?


    Remember;

    Winners never quit, quitters never win......
     
  3. blogzandstuff

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    So you want to inspire others but you keep giving up. You must have an interest, music, films, travel, food etc. You could start a blog about an interest you have, you'll connect with like minded people. Don't expect to make a fortune and just work at it, success will come
     
  4. Allark

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    Often times we find our purpose in things we like to do and we like to do things that we succeed at or are good at. But to be good at anything, we first have to suck at it. For example, when I first started out at my job I didn't really like it, it was just something to do to get by. I also sucked at it very badly. Now, once I became decent at it I started to enjoy it much more and making a career out of it.