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What to do when you're heartbroken?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by hannspree, Nov 15, 2011.

  1. hannspree

    hannspree Registered Member

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    What to do when you're heartbroken?

    I just don't want to work and not productive at all. I'm not making money at all. I tried to do something fun, but after it was done, I got heartbroken again.

    Any suggestion for me?
     
  2. thedon23

    thedon23 Elite Member

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    Move on to the next. Plenty of fish in the sea ;)
     
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  3. t0mmy

    t0mmy Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    lolwut!? if thats you in the pic pm me i will mend your broken heart :D
     
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  4. positivcriss

    positivcriss Power Member

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    I know the feeling...well...i just go out with friends, smoke so many tigarettes, talk with many peoples etc...
    In few words : Don't stay alone ! :)
     
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    winordietrying Junior Member

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    Nah.. PM me first Hannspree if that you's in the pic :)
     
  6. wolf1880

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    if there's something you can do to resolve your heartaches, then do it first. If there's nothing else that can be done, then tell youself that you've done everything and accept the facts and move on... just try to think of the reasons why you want to make money...
     
  7. Orbit143

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    I drink. If it doesn't help then drink some more.
     
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  8. positivcriss

    positivcriss Power Member

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    Drinking is not an solution :)... in the next day you will be still alone...so...think again.
     
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    if you are female .... KISS ME :)
     
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    capripio Regular Member

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    Just type funny videos in youtube :D
     
  11. axus_auto

    axus_auto Power Member

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    Spamming the shit out of forums and blogs always mends my broken heart.
     
  12. bigeazy

    bigeazy Regular Member

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    I would wreck that :D
     
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    Orbit143 Senior Member

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    It's not a solution, it's a workaround :)
     
  14. Randy569

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    Find a friend with a sympathetic ear, and spill your heart out. It usually helps to just talk it out, and get it all out of your system.

    Unfortunately, the only thing that really heals a broken heart is time.
     
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    djeuro613 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    find a new sould mate. Go Out and meet different people at bars.
     
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    safex Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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  17. themeret

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    i suggest you for yoga , it will help you .
     
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    Create a better life for yourself. They say that living well is the best revenge.

    Honestly though, I don't know... start a site that you're passionate about or try a new method that you've been interested in. Going back into the same routine right now will be painful so something new might help.

    You could also try 5 Hour Energy. Megadoses of Vitamin B will definitely help you focus, but they won't heal your heart.
     
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  19. CraigNewmark

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    I have a section on my website where you can m4w or w4m which ever you are.

    Or you can cry about it on FB through annoying wall posts.

    On a serious note, same thing just happened to me and I find that exercise and doing different things than I did before helps. It is a terrible feeling but we all go though it.

    Rebounds and drinking won't help. A process of positive self development will.
     
  20. jackroze59

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    stay yourself busy..dnt be alon
    talk to the peoples who likes u , who cares for you