What should i do?

I need some help and guidance. It s funny cuz i ask for help to strangers. I tried everything, from affiliate marketing to shopify dropshippinh to personal branding and hacking. The fact is that i gave up really fast. I can t do a method for long time because i don t have any money ( my parent have money but i am a shitty ass 20yr old kid and i want to make it on my own because i want to prove it wrong to everybody). I made in coa marketing like $60 but i think i put in like $300 with bing ads cuz the cupons are cheap. This thing is hard af i was in deppresion because i taught i wasn t good enough. I m scared of 9-5. The fact is that everybody on the internet said that “ you need to work like 18h or sm shit” i want to work like that but how can i do that when i don t have money? For example in aff marketing: how can work 18h every day (landing pages, testing, ads, , tracking all that good stuffs) when i don t have 100$ for ad spending. This thing eats me from inside “ i disn t work nothing today what am i gonna do?” What i do in my free time? ( i go to collage sometime, i live in Romania so i can go like 3 times a week on collage and i can finish it with no problems, i watch yt videos with bussineses,making money, designing all creative stuffs and at least i read a lot of bussines and self develepoment books.
I searched on this forums a lot of methods but a lot of them are like black hat i don t like bussineses like : make 150 instagram account start using a bot and start cpa marketing.

I don t know if the post is where it needs to be, if not i m sorry.

if you think you need money to succeed then... get money

a job is the easiest way to get money but here are some of the ways you can make money online:

freelancing
virtual assistant
surveys
flip things on ebay

don't be lazy be creative
also you dont need a lot of money, just think creatively. nobody here is going to babysit you
you have to think yourself

Facts: you don't need to work 18hrs a day online in order to earn a living. I think you started with hard things like aff marketing and dropshipping; start easy and build a legitimate IG page. Pick a niche, a free python bot, a vps for less than $6 a month and you are ready to go. In 3 month (even less) you can build a 10k followers page and start doing some shit. When you learn more, build more pages and link them to create a brand. Good thing? You don't have to spend the whole day. Find a 9-5 job (i don't care if you are scared, it's a normal thing) and when you come home, work on ig for 2 hours. Stop

The fact is that i gave up really fast

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Dont give up. Tweak, try again, think what you did wrong. Try other methods but for god sake you wont be ever successful if you give up!

P.S.
Get 8 hrs a day job or part time job. You wont be instantly successful, it requires time and a ton of knowledge. Give yourself time to learn things you need to learn. You are only 20 years old - learn how to code, its very helpful in IM.

I'm from Romania too, and i know about the wave in our country. But get a job, an easy job, like callcenter job, and then earn some money, then go and spend the money on IM. Dont be afraid to fail and to waste money, its a part of the process.

Hi,

There are lot of free tools available here on BHW and all over the internet.
Use all free tools for all your work.
Try not to spend your hard earned money because when loose money it hurts more and you will be prompted to give up.

Use maximum possible free resources and find out the method and technics which work for you and which you enjoy doing again and again.

Once you figure out the best working model then think of spending money and expanding the model.

All the Best!

You live in EU so:
go to UK, DE, NL, IE to work
save 2000-3000 euros, come back to your country and start IM
profit.

Tenebra23 said:

Facts: you don't need to work 18hrs a day online in order to earn a living. I think you started with hard things like aff marketing and dropshipping; start easy and build a legitimate IG page. Pick a niche, a free python bot, a vps for less than $6 a month and you are ready to go. In 3 month (even less) you can build a 10k followers page and start doing some shit. When you learn more, build more pages and link them to create a brand. Good thing? You don't have to spend the whole day. Find a 9-5 job (i don't care if you are scared, it's a normal thing) and when you come home, work on ig for 2 hours. Stop

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Best advice

jackbauuer said:

You live in EU so:
go to UK, DE, NL, IE to work
save 2000-3000 euros, come back to your country and start IM
profit.

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It's funny how everybody thinks that it rains money in these countries ... a lot of people come to the UK and think they will get shit loads of money for the work ... they always forget that there are living costs as well. Oh ... and a job ... it's not that easy, especially if you wish to get a decent job that would allow you to save something ... not to mention all that paperwork to get a job/flat/etc ... especially if you just move into the UK.

Not to discourage the OP but it's better if you find job in your country, especially, if you want some cash so you can start doing the IM.

Or freelance online - check out best selling gigs on elance, fiverr, freelancer, etc ... just to get an idea the possibilities you have.

You need to put the pressure off. Find a part time job to get the ball rolling. Once you start making some money offline, then stick to just 1 method and keep doing it untill you make money. Consistency is the key.. all the ways you mentioned, they all work.

Just wanted to tell you that don't think of us as strangers, everyone here at bhw cares about other bhw members. We are all part of the best IM community.

Yeah, bro i just realize that. I did not expect that you guys are so helpful ( i mean u motivate me) but the thing is i got more help from this forum and this community than all my friends who just laugh at me

Take a deep breath and relax. You got this. It's all a learning process and you will find that your ideas and methods will constantly evolve.

Don't beat yourself up for not sticking to something long enough (or anything at all for that matter). Focus on what you have learned and make changes accordingly.

Good luck!

mzonas said:

it's not that easy, especially if you wish to get a decent job that would allow you to save something ... not to mention all that paperwork to get a job/flat/etc ... especially if you just move into the UK.

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It's very easy. You go to the job agency in your country and agency organize everything: job, papers, flat and transport. And you don't need decent job to save 2000-3000 euros in 3-4 months, you need minimal wage job and don't spend money on drugs/alcohol/hookers.

Minimal wages by country, after income tax:

UK - 1247 euro
DE - 1102 euro
NL - 1430 euro
IE - 1509 euro

RO - 273 euro