What do you think about a 30yo guy with a 18yo female? Am I a predator?

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Not a serious relationship, just fun and casual sex
I'm not sure what to think about it, I didn't meet her yet, still thinking if I should do that or not

What are your thoughts? Is this predatory behavior, morally wrong or is it perfectly fine since both are adults?
 
Not a serious relationship, just fun and casual sex
I'm not sure what to think about it, I didn't meet her yet, still thinking if I should do that or not

What are your thoughts? Is this predatory behavior, morally wrong or is it perfectly fine since both are adults?
If you have to ask then it's not right.
 
Being legal doesn't automatically make it normal
18 and 30 is a huge maturity and life-experience gap

I wouldn't call it predatory by default, but i'd definitely understand why people find it questionable. The fact you're asking suggests you feel something is off too.
 
If you have to ask then it's not right.
i think it's controversial, I could found arguments to sustain both meeting her or not meeting her, that's why I'd like to hear some external thoughts

Being legal doesn't automatically make it normal
18 and 30 is a huge maturity and life-experience gap

I wouldn't call it predatory by default, but i'd definitely understand why people find it questionable. The fact you're asking suggests you feel something is off too.
you are right
and I feel something is off or questionable due to moral values
at the same time, most of opinions are based on relationships, in this case it would be just short term fun
my opinion would be clearer if it was a serious long term relationship, but about something that both know are for temporary fun, i'm not so sure
 
Go! But remember to use a condom.
You never know what kind of psycho there is....

At the same time, you have to remember that the person may have personal mental health problems, so she's looking for "daddy"..

But I would go. However, perhaps the woman is looking for someone mentally stronger around her, and not a slob of the same age.
Maybe she is finding that from you.
 
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