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What do you do when everything fails?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by -SICK-, Feb 9, 2012.

  1. -SICK-

    -SICK- Registered Member

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    Guys,

    It's not an easy living right now. Everybody knows that.

    So, I think all of you know the feeling you get when you fail and you see that just nothing seems to work out for you. Then, you are frustrated and you dont know what to do.

    What do you do to clear up your mind? What motivates you the most in those times?

    Please let me know. I could really use some motivation right now.


    kind regards,
    SICK
     
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  2. kitteh101

    kitteh101 Regular Member

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    Send me a PM of your facebook and i will talk to you there are you in the US we could exchange methods and work of eachother. I got a blog that gets like 100 vistors a day without me touching it and when i promote my site i can get up to 500 a day. I am about to put a CPA content locker on the site the visitors are very targeted it took me a month to get to this point lol

    :EDIT: oh and what keeps me going is seeing all the people around me working there As*s of only to survive and not really LIVE
     
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  3. -SICK-

    -SICK- Registered Member

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    Firstly, I dont have Facebook.

    Secondly, it's very kind of you offering me the chance of working with you but I just dont see the point in doing this, you see, it's not worth my time and currently I dont see why I should put more effort in that IM stuff.

    Now in all those WSOs they tell you that you'll be rich within days but we all know its not like that.

    So there has to be something which helps people doing this and I want to know what it is. Money itself does not count, since you can get a "normal" job aswell which will get you the money you need.


    kind regards,
    SICK
     
  4. kitteh101

    kitteh101 Regular Member

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    There are people on this website making 6 figures........ IM has no limits like a "normal" job has you might work for 10 years and not get promoted. With IM if you can find a method that works and make $10.000 in a month. What methods are you using to try to get money?
     
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  5. Essence19

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    First of all your attitude just spoke 1 million words, in every ebook,thread and post there are small hints you need to look for,each one can help you look in the right direction. but you will FAIL tonnes of times before you succeed once.

    What motivates people is to get out of where they are and into a better life.

    Remember internet marketing is not a job ,its not a course you can do or a step by step process.

    ITS A LUXURY only for those who want it badly enough. if you want it Really bad you will do WHATEVER it takes to make it and I mean WHATEVER!!!!

    I was broke for a long time before I started getting an income.

    You probably still have a Long way to go.Don't quit so easily.
     
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  6. n3xus

    n3xus Junior Member

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    bro quit feeling sorry for yourself and just keep trying things.

    back when i first started i had a negative balance in my bank account because of an overdraft fee from a monthy bill some scam company was sending to my account...

    worked my ass off for 2 weeks, just two (BH methods by the way), and made my money back and then some. opened up a new bank account, and started fresh reinvested and kept improving and optimizing.

    suck it up dude
     
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    Ricky Roma Regular Member

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    I think i fould the reasons you are failing
    1) "I dont have facebook"
    Why not? plenty of people including me are making money off facebook Are you too lazy to get one?

    2) "I just dont see the point in doing this, you see, it's not worth my time and currently I dont see why I should put more effort in that IM stuff. "
    Are you kidding me? This man offered you help and you say no thanks? With this attitude you will never succeed! You come here asking for help but someone offers you help and its "not worth your time" Nobody is going to want to help you now because You don't see the point in it. If you don't want to work in this life you are going to fail Period!

    3) "Now in all those WSOs they tell you that you'll be rich within days but we all know its not like that." If they were making that much money they wouldent waist there time making a WSO. The only people selling wso's that are rich are the ones who are good at selling that WSO. If you bought a wso then you have contributed to THEM getting rich not YOU

    4) "So there has to be something which helps people doing this and I want to know what it is" DID YOU NOT HERE THE OTHER GUY OFFERING YOU HELP why would I offer to help you? you will just say no thanks

    "since you can get a "normal" job aswell" with your (i don't want to work or listen to people trying to help me) attitude this is probably your best option.

    Its hard getting rich. If you talked to the richest guys on this forum they would all have one thing in common. They are all willing to work harder than you are.
     
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  9. michaelr1988

    michaelr1988 Regular Member

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    Perseverance.

    I have been on bhw since august last year. After 6 months of hopping around different methods and not earning ANYTHING, this month I found my calling and its making me some money.

    I can't tell you what you should do, or how you should do it, the best way to find what works is test, test, test and work hard. The reasoning behind that is because everyone's brain works differently, a method that works for one may not work for another.

    Judging by your post you seem like you get unhappy really easy when your not getting results. Don't feel down just tick that method off your list and move on to the next. You will find a method if you work hard enough.


     
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    There is nothing in life I have failed at as much as IM. But that just makes the success all that much sweeter. Just keep your eyes on the prize.

    Sent from my SCH-I500 using Tapatalk
     
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  11. -SICK-

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    There are some very thoughtful comments here I really appreaciate that.

    Now, I'm not quitting and I probably never will.
    But you know, sometimes you're just fed up and you dont know whether it's worth doing the same thing over and over again or if you just have to begin something new.

    kind regards,
    SICK
     
  12. darkfury

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    I've had that feeling that I'm just going in circles and scraping by month after month, but nothing ventured nothing gained - if you see a new opportunity grab it by the balls
     
  13. keytenx

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    Rest if you must but dont you quit. :)

    If you fall down, stay on the ground for a while gather your will and thoughts and then get up strong. :)
     
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    The things that keep me motivated:

    1) Family - My family means the world to me and I will stop at nothing to provide them the life that all of us deserve.
    2) Peace of mind - being able to go to dinner at a nice restaurant and not have to worry about where the money will come from.
    3) Reduction of stress - I have all too recently literally been in a line waiting for food donations and being thankful of the wonderful people that gave their money to help others like us. We are beyond that now and I am very thankful for that... but more money would still make things easier.

    Those are what drives me and I absolutely REFUSE to fail. IM is not a 'get rich quick' thing but it certainly can lead to a lifetime of very decent earnings if worked consistently. I am still on that path as well... but unlike you I have the knowledge that I will make my goals - that I will do the hard work to make them happen and those 3 items above and more will be mine.

    And then I'll set even higher goals and continue on...

    *Edit* We still consider ourselves 'frustrated philantropists'. We want to help others but our own finances have gotten in the way. We have been able to donate toys that we're no longer using to families that needed them and also donated food when we had some to give - but we want to give more to help 'pay forward' the wonderful blessings that others have given us. We will do that for life as things continue to get better.
     
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    take a look at the methods you have tried > what part of it did you like or were you good at > how can you best use that what method uses this the most?

    If you can get to the place you enjoy doing it you may get enough of a kick to keep going long enough to get some money, after all teh shit this lefe throws this is the only pick me up.

    Glad to hear you will keep going as the facts are some of us just dont have a choice, thankfully you can get so much on here for free.
     
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    Take a look around you, there are plenty of people in life failing harder than you are. Man up and keep trying.
     
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    Hey SICK, PM me your skype, let see if I can look for ya something that works, I mean people can be failed at different part in life and levels, not anyone like anyone, you just got screwed up but it not the ending day of the world, PM me man
     
  18. proxygo

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    what motivates a person to try harder
    even when things seem pointless.. read
    this thread..this was my inspiration we all
    have one, just gotta find it..

    my inspiration