Have you got the answer to your question? I m looking for same answerSo let's say you have aspirations of an affiliate site with several dating sites; Match, eHarmony, Zoosk, etc..., like a top 10 kind of thing...do you have to build the site first in order for these companies to approve you to be an affiliate?...I guess you would have to submit an application to all of them before publishing the site?