Unlock Iphone 3GS 05.14.02 04.1

Hey mates,

Before ya'll bombard me with 'go do your research sucker' comments, please understand that I already have, but the info online are so overwhelming that I dont wanna *uck up my iphone.

What are the CLEAR steps I would use to Jailbreak n Unlock my iphone with the foll specs
3gs
04.1
05.14.02

*mods, pardon me if this is in the wrong section, thanks.

Here you go: http://lmgtfy.com/?q=how+to+jailbreak+iphone+3gs+4.1

Just search the web and you will find a handfull of sites that will unlock your iphone.