Ungrateful Little S*&#

Some people want instant results in life.
There is no instant results, you got to work.

I learned it myself. I left the forum for about 4 months.
and went out on my own, learned and tried over and over again.

You got to learn on your own. NO one will hand you results,
No one will give you your answer at a life.

This is an opportunity that is all equally given to us.
1 shot at life.

-Gorka.

Being the devils advocate and taking a closer look i could see why the guy reacted the way he did! He essentially asked you to 'save his business'! So that means he already has a business and wanted help like NOW, you coulld have just made the suggestions of what was needed, the money he needed to spend at a minimum and and let him know what his options are....cost toi save the biz vs doing nothing. Then he can go away and think about it and maybe magically reappear days later with some (borrowed?) cash to fix things.

Now putting myself in his position, about to lose my business and extremely stressed (hence the f-bomb) and all a friend suggests is to enter a competition (which is true he has a small chance of winning) sounds like a no answer. Its like telling someone who is about to lose his house to buy a lottery ticket.

kkroyal said:

I had a similar experience two days ago, but in reverse.
I asked a member for informations about a post he have made,
i simply wanted some links or bread crumbs to know in which way i have to search,
the greedy kid wanted money for this.... Pay me 50$ and i can help you,
i told him that i dont want him to set any thing up or such stuff, simply some links and little advice.
Then he told me know how has his price.... i was shocked to meet such people here.
I asked a other member the same question, and the member tried to help me as much he can,
without charging for informations.... I think some people are not understanding what
being part of a community means.....

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Its because people get bombarded all the time....not all, but a lot of us...not justifying him but rather it is one of those things, at least for me, that at times you have to catch me in the right mood...cause a busy or bad day...and 10 people knocking at the door at the same time can be frustrating at times.

If I bothered every time someone acted like that with me, I would have fallen into depression by now. I help people here a lot as well, because that's who I am in real life as well and I love doing that - not because of God, Karma or any of that (I don't believe in any of those things), but because it makes me feel good with myself.

Someone will exchange more than 20 PM-s with me where I answer every question with a 500-word answer and in the end I don't even receive a thank you; another one will be the "sweet" begger that acts nice when his questions are answered and once a question is not answered (and for fuck sake it's always the dreaded one - tell me your niche or your site so I can copy you), I am told to fuck off with no reason.

Another one will ask the same question over and over again in different words (for example what is the best network or the best way to make money or the best monetization method etc...) and after I patiently explain and answer it more than once, I get something along the lines of: "Dude, why don't you tell me what I need to know" in a very rude way. And of course, there are the ridiculous people that want you to setup their sites, install and code scripts for them or even get the affiliate links from their network - these I just ignore and don't even reply.

What makes my day and still keeps me at helping people are the ones who eventually make up for all the negativity, that will appreciate your help, share things in return (although I never asked for it) and PM you again after they succeed to tell you that you are the reason they got such a good start on their ventures - for me that's more precious than money, after all humans are "designed" to interact with one another, not just be animals who just make money and forget about the world around them.

So my point is, don't stress too much about it - there will always be shitheads who won't appreciate shit despite how much you try to help them. Remember, a sucker is born every minute! (I just love this phrase )

Hey dude don't let it bring you down. Idiots looking for handouts or a get rich easy without doing any work scheme; you didn't give it to him and he lost his S*#t.
You've got your business going and I'm sure you help a lot of people, focus on those who are grateful and persistent, let the low lives go their separate way.

Oh and BTW, letting someone go without insulting back, trolling, etc isn't bad or being a hippy, lol. It shows you maturity and that you've got more than just a brain cell keeping you alive mate

Boolean Games said:

Hey dude don't let it bring you down. Idiots looking for handouts or a get rich easy without doing any work scheme; you didn't give it to him and he lost his S*#t.
You've got your business going and I'm sure you help a lot of people, focus on those who are grateful and persistent, let the low lives go their separate way.

Oh and BTW, letting someone go without insulting back, trolling, etc isn't bad or being a hippy, lol. It shows you maturity and that you've got more than just a brain cell keeping you alive mate

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Agreed!

GORKA said:

Some people want instant results in life.
There is no instant results, you got to work.

I learned it myself. I left the forum for about 4 months.
and went out on my own, learned and tried over and over again.

You got to learn on your own. NO one will hand you results,
No one will give you your answer at a life.

This is an opportunity that is all equally given to us.
1 shot at life.

-Gorka.

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Planting seeds day by day, harvesting the crop in the fall, so to say.

As unfortunate as it might be, I think you should accept this type of people as an inevitable part of life and as soon as you detect them to be what they are, move on without wasting any more time on the lost cause that they are. In the end, all of this is them shooting themselves in the foot.

Bleght said:

In the end, all of this is them shooting themselves in the foot.

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Very, very true...

Bleght said:

As unfortunate as it might be, I think you should accept this type of people as an inevitable part of life and as soon as you detect them to be what they are, move on without wasting any more time on the lost cause that they are. In the end, all of this is them shooting themselves in the foot.

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I agree...

People only get results based on the amount of energy they are willing to put into it.

I dont know how many times a day people add me and ask me the same question: "Teach me how to make money online".

I don't even bother answering anymore. They automatically get blocked.

@Skyebug77 U played it good all the way. That guy could have entered the contest (just my thought).
I guess he expected u to spoon feed him and the contest you suggested him was a little too much work for him to learn and apply.
Pity him! (Moral: good attitude can really open up doors if not at least help u get started)

ridersark said:

@Skyebug77 U played it good all the way. That guy could have entered the contest (just my thought).
I guess he expected u to spoon feed him and the contest you suggested him was a little too much work for him to learn and apply.
Pity him! (Moral: good attitude can really open up doors if not at least help u get started)

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Thanks bro... I appreciate it.

Haha, crazy some people - they want everything for nothing and are not even willing to put in the effort (that doesn't cost anything).

You can't help people like that; best to just stay away.

davids355 said:

Haha, crazy some people - they want everything for nothing and are not even willing to put in the effort (that doesn't cost anything).

You can't help people like that; best to just stay away.

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Thats the thing...if people just put in a little effort, they would be able to accomplish a lot...instead our generation of people grow lazy wanting hand outs...I blame parent for not teaching good work ethics.

Life's presents, those! It's like you're being sent here to grow a small garden out of a swamp.... Initially, it's lot of hard work for you. Somehow, you create a level ground. Then you try to remove weed and plant good flowering plants. You get stung by wasps and leeches. They try first to get it easy out of you, but you try to create butterflies out of them! Then they show you their real attitude. You still become friendly towards them. They become more violent. You're still being a saint for them. They become more evil.... You lose cool. Not cool!

Swipe them off you before its too late and evening, and you lag behind in fulfilling that beautiful creation of a garden, which is meant for you and your beloved to be happy within! Those wasps and leeches aren't losing.... they are given the duty to distract good guys from completing their own given duties! Give them more attention, they win, you lose! Why let them win?

Creating the divinely beautiful garden of course also meant beating the hell out of such evil beings AND win over them, basically! They don't want to undergo change/evolution? Their loss..... They don't belong in your garden. Get them out of it.

P.S.
There are others more deserving to have your special attention! Part of the whole duty, you see

P.P.S.

Absolutely stop when you absolutely must! There is dead end ahead, which will be worked upon by someone better! You take a diversion, and carry on doing your great work....

Well, as a newb in this community, the guides here are pretty good... (at least much better than the internet seo guru that i sink some money and teaching me about some outdated stuff)

You pay for service & advice. Well, some people can offer it for free...but it's up to them really

Happened to me and got backstabbed a few times as well.

I've learned my lesson a hard way, there is no real friend when it comes to business, the one you help today might end up being the one compete with you tmr. And yes they will be a total bitch about lol.

send them straight to themeforest