My life and relationship got lot better when I stopped thinking about Red Pill and MGTOW.
Just focus on your business, make some decent money, become a better version of yourself everyday and have a reasonable amount of fitness aka dont be a fat slob and you will be amongst the 10% population women want to date.
Thats all you need in my opinion. I can't believe how stupid I was buying into concepts like hypergamy, women want to use you, scarcity mindset and all, what a load of BS!