Stuck In Negativity

i always feel like i am destined to do great things !
i have positive energy and great ideas i want to do and that i am currently doing !

my problem is that i am surrounded with negative people that always give me negativity and waste my time !
the problem is that they are from my familly , i don't really like that but don't want to heart their feelings !
as you know when a thing is broken it can't be fixed again !

how do you deal with it if you were me ?
glad to hear your advice how to deal with this

Sometimes you have to cut off your family, it's a part of life. You don't want to hurt their feelings? They're actively hurting you right now, to the point that you're asking for advice about it on BHW. Is it better that you suffer as long as you don't 'hurt their feelings'?

we've all been there. a strong emotion like anger or fear sucks us in and suddenly we say or do ,hurting .stuck nagative thinking.

Man, I know exactly what you're talking about. Unfortunately, that type of negativity is still kind of a norm in many parts of the world, like in Eastern Europe where I'm from.

Here are some suggestions for you:

1) thicken your skin (look up stoicism);
2) control the things that you can control (for example, limit your interactions with these people during work hours when you need to focus);
3) find a stress and emotional pain relief strategy (lifting weights, punching the bag, or something of that type of thing) and implement it daily;
4) find positive, success-oriented people to discuss the things you like with (IM, entrepreneurship, or whatever it may be).

just say 'yes yes, you're right' . don't get yourself into a conflict with negative people as they will drug you down to their mindset and win

It's everyday thing for most people but I understand the level you are facing could be much higher.

Easiest thing is accept the fact they are negative people and Train your mind to ignore/get unaffected by those people!

mikaop said:

i always feel like i am destined to do great things !
i have positive energy and great ideas i want to do and that i am currently doing !

my problem is that i am surrounded with negative people that always give me negativity and waste my time !
the problem is that they are from my familly , i don't really like that but don't want to heart their feelings !
as you know when a thing is broken it can't be fixed again !

how do you deal with it if you were me ?
glad to hear your advice how to deal with this

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mikaop said:

i always feel like i am destined to do great things !
i have positive energy and great ideas i want to do and that i am currently doing !

my problem is that i am surrounded with negative people that always give me negativity and waste my time !
the problem is that they are from my familly , i don't really like that but don't want to heart their feelings !
as you know when a thing is broken it can't be fixed again !

how do you deal with it if you were me ?
glad to hear your advice how to deal with this

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Have a similar situation, try to stick to your ideas, even if you already know that your ideas are great and you already achieved some success, even small, just try to list it all (even the small ones) to a piece of paper and stick it in a visible place where you work, so you'll recall how good you are doing and you will be even more focused on your business.
A small tip but maybe it can help you acknowledge how much you're already achieving .