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Stop making excuses

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by ferma231, Apr 7, 2013.

  1. ferma231

    ferma231 Elite Member

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    This advice is the biggest thing i had to get over, i did make a lot of excuses why i cant do that, and this and so on, but forgot about it and did learn everything i need to get what i wanted.

    A lot of people should stop whining and asking for help, because only one who can reach success is YOU.

    Look in the mirror, its the only person who can get there where you wanna get, i wont be the one who kick your ass to do whatever it takes to get that $1k a month, or that sexy car you see every day, or that new Audi r8, but you can get there no matter what.

    A lot of people say : I wanna get X , but i dont know how. Ask why dont you know that, and how you can get to know what you need ? And thats the answer.

    STOP MAKING EXCUSES

    I think this is the biggest thing in IM, and life, people dont achieve much because excuses are easier to make than taking good action.

    There is wall in front of you, its huge wall, but if you can get over it, you will get success.
    Most of the people give up before they even try, thats why they wont get nowhere, but you are not one of them, you can get over them, build huge ladders, hit the wall, destroy it, but get to the other side.


    And in the end i wanna share this video
    Tyler Perry, is millionaire now, he was homeless, but he did get over the wall to get what he wants.

    GooD luck everyone, we all need to get that success we are looking for

    Homeless Tyler Perry


    Tyler Perry became homeless at the age of 16 yrs.old when he dropped out of High school. He later went back to obtain his GED.
    Period of Homelessness in 1992 at 22-years-old


    Tyler Perry became homeless after moving from New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia where he spent his life's savings to make a musical that people did not attend. He spent months living in cheap motels and his car. A Christian, Perry kept his faith in God and kept writing. He became successful in 1998 and has never looked back. Now, he uses part of his wealth to help the homeless.
    tyler perry was homeless 2004 thru 2005

     
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  2. SmartMan

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    Congrats ferma. You really deserved it! :)

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  3. Sunday Lunch

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    Ferma,

    Thanks, it is easy to lose focus and try to undertake 10 projects at once.

    The funniest thing about Tyler Perry is that 99% of people have no idea who he is, 99% of his movies and pony are yet he absolutely coins it in.

    He comes across well though.
     
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    Nice post mate. Goes to show, hard work and never giving up pays off.
     
  5. ferma231

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    Thanks bud

    Its better to focus on 1 thing, max 3 if you do 1 thing at the time, do all, then go to next.
    Belive me, i was there and didnt made shit. switched to 1 method and did made really good money.
     
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    its allways, and it never let me down :)

    Its best feeling to get the money in hands, i cant explain it, but its the best feeling after you work really hard.
     
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    True Story. Endlessly Repeated!
     
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  8. meathead1234

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    It's great posting videos of other successful people... but what's *your* next goal in IM? Are you still focusing on one "method" or have you started diversifying and building a real business?
     
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  9. ferma231

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    Im building more like bussiness. Since i found that methods dont last for long, but bussiness last for ever if its done right.
    And in the end bussiness can be sold anyway, but you will never sell method, only making WSO.

    Im still 19 and in high school, so its quite hard to do school + build bussiness + few other things, but i do that anyway, and best part is that my classmates look kinda weird at this, that i think about bussiness and they thinkg about where to go and what to do after school.
    Im more bussiness person and i love it

    Today was kinda weird accident, girl classmate asked me to build website, and it was about ecommerce website where she could sell clothes and things like that.

    I even wrote how she could get to $20k a month biz and everything, but she made excuse : Other people do that my answer : Then be better then them, when google was made, there were other search engines. Anyway, idea was good, but her mindset wasnt, she made so many excuses, even idea was brilliant.

    And that happens with most of the people, they have great idea, they make excuse and dont do shit, but when they see other succesful person banking hard with same idea they regret they didnt take action.

    And one more video :

     
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    You should have tell her- Tits or GTFO
     
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  11. reinie

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    Great advice.
    Don't just make goals, set a time frame on them, break them down, and see what you have to do EVERYDAY to get there
     
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    Isnt that feom the secret ?

    I was allaays thinking to make my vision wall or board, got to find time to do that, it will be better if i can see for what im working :)
     
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    Im so happy for all the advice you have given me!!!1111111111111

    CANT WAIT TO BE IN 3K REP CLUB TOO OMFG
     
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    t0mmy Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    +1 from me, thanks for all your really insightful and knowledgeable posts OP :D 3k Reps woohooo

    BUT....

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    Damn, that pic is weird for real.

     
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    Nothing new there but I find the message inspirational. Definitely something I need to learn.
     
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    Nice post bro , Good read
     
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    Ok, am I the only one that's confused by this? He became successful in 1998, but was homeless from 2004 through 2005?