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Sober VS. Alcoholic

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by trafficsource, Oct 8, 2012.

  1. trafficsource

    trafficsource Power Member

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    I was having very big problems because of drinkings. So I was changing myself and was quitting it. I am lucky to have a real soulmate girl who always say what she thinks. When I was sober we made all kind of usual "interesting" things and life was normal but after 7 months she said what she really thinks....it's pretty boring to be sober and doing these things. I totally agree.
     
  2. MiLiTARYiV

    MiLiTARYiV Senior Member

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    leave her now. i use to drink but i stopped. yep when u drink your girl become use to that behavior and lifestyle but when u stop, you change, and some mates do not like the change in you and become bored.

    tell her this is the real me either love it or hate it and leave if u hate it. no use of wasting time
     
  3. Raven13

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    Being sober is good for business u don't lose FOCUS! Personnaly i havecycles, I spend 3 months of workholism and no alchool no drugs no nothing. 3 months of drunk nights party whatever, it's my reward for my work. this week i'm in the transition it's my first week with no alchool no social life party and stuff like that. If everything goes fine i'll restart by the end of december in BRASIL!!! or not ....
    Do it with cycles ur couple life will be less boring ;)
     
  4. Oukast

    Oukast Senior Member

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    Because you can only be absolutist or drink your brains out, amirite?
     
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  5. bigmoneymaker

    bigmoneymaker Newbie

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    Try to find a balance, otherwise you might have to find more interesting things to do than hang out with her.