Smug SEO company idiot

Went to a show in london where I met a smug fool who said "ooooh I have access to 1000 dating libraries" which I could get you indexed in no problem..

He was such a smugo charging silly money for essentially what is foc.

So I thought I would turn to my dream team on here and ask you if you know where this erroneous list is?

Dating library? If he was talking about a members database, then try Ebay... 100,000 members, $75 USD.
Also available on expertzzz.com, probably other forums.
You're better off recruiting members on other sites besides your dating site. ie, offer a beta membership, free coupons, poach members from free sites and social networks, etc.

I think he was refering to library sites like DMOZ.... yes I know they are called something else