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Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by 2011nfl, Mar 11, 2014.

  1. 2011nfl

    2011nfl Supreme Member

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    Since I have been gone, I have learned a lot about appreciation for life and not taking things for granted as well as taking responsibility for what you do. I still see people on here talking about how they can't make money and this and that, but atleast you can walk. Appreciate what you can do instead of complaining about what you can't do. I still see people talking about paypal cut their account off for no reason and this and that. YOU did something for them to cut it off. PERIOD. If you can't make money online, then work at McDonalds, and if paypal cuts your account then fix the issue. And just like my good friend Basstrackerboats said in another thread, PEOPLE QUIT CUTTING THROATS! Do your own seo instead of hating on others for being better and destroying their rankings. If you can't cut it then work at McDonalds. There is things that I have to take responsibility for, but I am not running. As soon as I am on my feet again I will be taking care of everything. I just think that others should have the same attitude and just be real.

    I say this all lightly (not pointing any particular person out). I just think that we all have potential and just need to appreciate what we can do.....

    And on another note..... I was sitting in the car last night and I felt a sense of strength hit my legs, and I turned out, stood up and made 3 or 4 steps without holding on to anything! The reason is because 1 god is telling me that it is almost time, and 2 that I am determined and I have learned the lesson that he was teaching me about appreciation.

    So please everyone, re-evaluate your life and focus on what you CAN do instead of what you have no control over.

    Thanks and GOD BLESS.
     
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  2. SeanAustin

    SeanAustin Power Member

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    This is a golden piece of advice. I love it and strive to live by it.

    Very nice to have you back in one piece. This forum felt strangely empty without you.
     
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    evilclown Senior Member

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    Respect. Best Wishes to you and your loves ones. God has a purpose, and a bad sense of humor. ;)
     
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    nice advice, 101% agreed bro
     
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  5. 2011nfl

    2011nfl Supreme Member

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    Thank you both. I am not completely back as I am just using open wifi connections right now and I will also be selling this computer very soon to help with bills, but I will get back to 100% and when I do I will be back with a BANG :)

     
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    Good news about you feeling a bit better. God bless you and your family. Clear eyes, full hearts...
     
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    Buddy, if you EVER sell a service here - I'm designing your thread free of charge. Sure it cuts money out of my pocket, but it's incredible seeing someone else out there that gets it.
     
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  9. 2011nfl

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    Thanks bud. If I took up all of the offers I have had since I have been out of the hospital, I could have a website with hosting, money to get me through, and now a bst thread lol. That would throw me right back in the game. But....... One thing I have learned through all of this is I have to do it on my own by working hard, but at the same time using the moral support of friends and family to get through. :)
     
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    Good to hear you are recovering mate. God bless you and keep us posted :)
     
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    Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken.....


    Thou art my hiding place; thou shalt preserve me from trouble;

    amen

    good luck man.
     
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    Yes i agree 100% with you,we must live each moment and be grateful of what we have.
     
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    Life is a 15 round fight. You took a big hit and got knocked off your ass. Your one resilient sob that is counting his next steps, and your setting goals, little by little. Thank you for sharing your story, and about how important it is to realize that we all should be more appreciative about our good fortunes. Keep thinking about your family, throw in some old Too Short albums ( I prefer "Getting It") for inspiration. Get well soon! In fact, get excellent soon! Your only on round 5 my friend.
     
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    I really liked, the point in your thread when you mentioned, you took some steps without any support.
    Man, I am really glad you did it. My prayers are with you.
    And I really liked what you said here.
    "with every hardship there comes an ease"
    Regards
     
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    You're back one of my inspirations. I'm happy to see you back posting with some strong tone. Hope to see you in full fledge. Take care and get well soon buddy.
     
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    Man, you have opened my eyes. This could not come at a better time. I literally agree with each and every one line.

    I for one was being hard on myself about what I couldn't do but now it's time for me to change my attitude toward it and make it my positive energy.

    Thank you a lot for the advice. I believe that even only 1 line of sentence can change a person's life.
     
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    I'm glad it helped you. If I can help just one person then I have fulfilled my obligation to myself, humanity, and of course god. My soul purpose is to help others. It was like that somewhat before my life circumstances, but now I have a much stronger passion. Thank you for opening your mind and god bless you.
     
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    Nice to see practical tips from one of the experienced members here. I believe that we all learn by mistakes. So far as being grateful is concerned, it is certainly true. We compare our lives with people earning more than me but all of us are rich in some way or other. We should focus on our strengths and just give best our best in whatever we do.
     
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    Wow!! You are truly and inspiration!!

    Get well soon Sir!

    God bless to you and your family Sir!!

    :)
     
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    Can't agree more with you!

    I lost very GOOD friend of mine few years ago, he was very cheerful and always try to make people laugh with his jokes and was loved by many as he was kind and helpful to everyone. I never told him that he was one of my closest friend(even I didn't know when did we became such close friends) but when he passed then I realised how close we were.

    Take your health seriously don't fuck around with that, think of your loved ones, your family needs you.
    Protection is better than cure. You can buy medicines but not life.
     
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