She rejected me

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SonOfBhw

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So, guys, I had a crush on 1 girl from 2017(i am not telling the whole story). I really liked her and 6 days ago I proposed her and she told me that she does not feel the same way which means she rejected me. But the problem is I am unable to get away from her and I still love her like before. But it's so painful to love someone who will not love you back. I am just sharing it coz it hurts to keep everything inside your head so wanted to share with you guys.

I am so sorry if I posted this in wrong thread or wrong forum but bhw has always been my favorite to share the things.
 
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Everyone is a smartass when the deed is done. I commend you that you have massive balls and told her exactly how you feel. Majority of guys would not be able to do that, me included.

IMHO you should not have proposed her, before dating her (if i understood you correctly you just proposed to her, you're not in a relationship with her?). I can imagine she was startled by your proposition, I know I would be :D
 
Go get your dick wet it helps massively,

No Reason to sulk its every day story, Remember you are not the only one and your end goal was always getting into her pants.,

Always helps
 
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At least you're already told her. So move on and deal with it. The girl in the world it's not only her.. find someone new.

Or don't give up yet, we human have a heart that can change. So fix your way to win her heart. :D
 
I second the "time heals all wounds" advice. It sucks now but will suck less with time.
 
I assume you are a virgin,not that i am judging but it is based on my experience same as you, you had the wrong approach and trust me she would be easy as fuck to get (if single) if you would have follow the basic procedure.


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Jk. You should have atleast went on to date with her atleast once or twice, you can not just go to anybody and propose unelss you are a celebrity. So get over it be atleast friend to her, because is she is interested in a friendship still now then you can get up the ladder ( all assuming you wont get beta cuck)

GL
 
I think u made mistake, without dating a girl asking to marry u? U had no chance, first u have to ask her for coffee or something like, that.

Now you have no chance even for coffee date, remember ur mistake and next time don't do it, no one will marry a guy w/o dating
 
legion85 said:
Everyone is a smartass when the deed is done. I commend you that you have massive balls and told her exactly how you feel. Majority of guys would not be able to do that, me included.

IMHO you should not have proposed her, before dating her (if i understood you correctly you just proposed to her, you're not in a relationship with her?). I can imagine she was startled by your proposition, I know I would be :D
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Depends on the culture. The OP looks like he is from India/Sri Lanka so perhaps in their area you don't really have boyfriend/girlfriends to avoid temptation and just go straight into marriage.

Back to original point though, a new hobby wouldn't go amiss. Just you posting on here is already helping you cope with the rejection and time will help. Good luck.
 
Well first of all, well done! you have massive balls, second time heals everything you might think that you are going to die coz of pain, but trust me just bare with it and it will automatically with time.. I never had a problem with girls, I'm considered about 7/10 in terms of looks on my country.. but my advice to you is work on yourself, don't chase girls focus on making money and improving yourself health, fitness ( maybe your game? ) you'll be amazed how many girls will try to win you
 
One mistake most guys make is that they start hitting on girls / proposing her BEFORE she is attracted to them. See, by proposing to her, you just let her know how you feel about her - that's it. What can she do about it? And if she doesn't know you, suddenly you go and tell her that you love her, that will actually creep her out and push her away from you.
 
No idea where you come from or whats your culture, but directly asking for proposal maybe just scared her or was super awkward.

Since you already got balls to ask her, also ask her if you see could imagine any relationship with you in the future. If no, move on and forget about her, she won't change her feeling. If yes, build a relationship slowly.
 
So painful to love someone who will not love you back.. It can be sometime more when she does.. Next time you have a crush on girl, try to let her know the same year.
 
swik said:
So painful to love someone who will not love you back.. It can be sometime more when she does.. Next time you have a crush on girl, try to let her know the same year.
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actually, telling girl you have crush on him will not work unless you are good-looking.. if you are just average give her mix signal, I learn it from my father who has 3 wife and currently has 3 girlfriends 2 :(
 
K-Jacob D. said:
actually, telling girl you have crush on him will not work unless you are good-looking.. if you are just average give her mix signal, I learn it from my father who has 3 wife and currently has 3 girlfriends 2 :(
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No way .. I dont believe that and if its the only thing that make her reject you, men you dont want that kind of girl.
 
K-Jacob D. said:
actually, telling girl you have crush on him will not work unless you are good-looking.. if you are just average give her mix signal, I learn it from my father who has 3 wife and currently has 3 girlfriends 2 :(
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Wait 3 wifes? You sure your name is not Yaqub? I mean J and Y makes a difference from europe to middle east
 
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