Sex question.

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  1. Rays90

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    Hello,

    I'm almost 30, never had gf and never had sex. I think 95% of people my age already done that. My question is, do you think it's ok to have sex with a prostitute, if not, how about one night stand or friends with benefits.

    Or you think I should just find a girl friend.

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  2. Ganie

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    Get married dude! You've already waited a long 30 years and saved yourself from Sex. Is there a problem in getting married now at 30 ?
    get married, save yourself for someone special like SHELDON !!!
     
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    do whatever you want man
     
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    no way you're 30!
     
  5. Rays90

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    Actually I'm 26.
     
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    I'm not sure I will ever marry, it seems like marriage is a trap, there are fruits inside, but I would get trap. I'm still not really sure about all this.
     
  7. RightFootFanatic

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    Whatever floats your boat. With a hooker it's a business agreement, mostly no hassle.
    With benefits always gets complicated sooner or later.
    GF / Wife well it has it ups and downs, but it's more intense.
     
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    A hooker is okay, just don't get some trashy street walker from the bad area of time, and also a condom.
     
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    You shouldn't think about marriage as a trap. It's more like a benefical relationship with someone who you love and important to you. Losing your virginity with a hooker can be a trickier trap because you'll always look back to it as something you had to pay for to happen and you might feel as a looser. Some people wouldn't give a shit but I'm saying these things because you are already questioning the idea itself even if it hasn't even happaned yet. It's something that you'll never forget. Who cares if you are 26? Get brave, fight for it, make it happen. Good luck bro'!
     
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  10. Aty

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    Wrong forum dude.
     
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    It depends on your resources bro....time,money,where do you live,etc
    My first option will be a solo night out in a club.In my experience a rock club is the best place to find an open-minded girl and hit her without too many words.
    If you feel insecure or anxious get drunk.
    If you don't drink but you have money go to a prostitute.
    If you don't drink,don't have money but you feel confident ask a girl out.You can't just clap your hands and get a girlfriend without no experience!!
    Cheers!
     
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    Become a PUA and start livin' life :)
     
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    Lol this thread
     
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    Being 26 and saying you're almost 30 is like being at the first day of college and saying you almost have your degree.

    Source: Am 26.
     
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    All I can tell is that sex with a prostitute and having sex in general without any real love or feelings involved will most likley be just a waste of money.

    It will never be the real deal if there are zero feelings involved since sex stands in direct connection with it. Maybe you get the catch.

    Find a real girl or boyfriend lol.
     
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    Exactly - wrong forum!!!
     
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    You already waited a long time, save it for someone special. Sex is more about the connection, no rush bro.
     
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    How much cash you got?
     
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    Be gay.
     
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