Realization - Yeah im pretty wasted.

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Im pretty drunk atm. i dont know, lets make thread lol

Anyway, i was thinking if my friends are really friends i dont know, but i just think i just waste my time with them, because i just dont enjoy time together with them, are they really friends who are boring as fuck ?

basicaly im thinking to get rid of all these fake friends and people i dont care really, they blame me for what i do, they dont really respect my oppinion and they arent real friends, i think when your mind changes in bussiness mind, every other people seems like are far from you and you dont wanna contact with them.


So i just throw myself 100% in bussiness and IM , without damn parties with fake friends, no more disraction with chatting with them. They just waste my time, they can say they respect me and im their friend and at the same time stab me in the back and blame me for what i do, i dont need that. so BB fake friends

Bussiness here i come.

Probably money wont change much, but it will get me ability to visit IM friends what i know from chatting and talking, at least we have same mindset and we think the same, goals are the same.

Here i come - New Ferma 2.0 :)

Thats all , maybe you also can share something releated to this topic

Thanks for your time
 
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lol, this is what happens when you become serious with IM, your mind is transformed in some way. We look at other people and how they act and react towards certain things and be like ...''facepalm''

dont worry you are going through a phase I guess, with time you will learn to adapt to eerrr ''regular'' people :D
 
Closed minded people have always gotten under my skin. My friends are very different from me, and it's starting to get to me as well. I don't think I'm better or of more value than another human being, but I come from an educated and open minded background, and my friends are the opposite. They're my friends because I grew up with them and they're good hearted guys, but were different and it sucks.
 
Fu*k fake friends. I have also stopped partying and hanging out with friends who have had complex problems with me. I now have only few buddies whom I can rely upon completely. They have been my friends since my childhood days. I have realized that these fake friends never care about you when you don't have money in your pocket. They don't give a damn when you're in a mess. All they care is partying and spoiling your precious time. I am glad that you have realized this fact. It's equal to enlightenment. Now, you'll be free and have more time to devote on IM. Fulfill your dreams and make your life big.

Cheers :)
 
If your sixth sense says someone is not perfect for you and somehow you keep interacting with them it is not good for your future. They jealous they envy on your progress as they can't match up with you.. Just get rid of these fake friends.
 
I agree fake friends suck and just a waste of time. Go for the green and fake friends you can always buy back.
Real friends on the other hand are not easy to find.

Cheers
Unclemike
 
Adam718 said:
Closed minded people have always gotten under my skin. My friends are very different from me, and it's starting to get to me as well. I don't think I'm better or of more value than another human being, but I come from an educated and open minded background, and my friends are the opposite. They're my friends because I grew up with them and they're good hearted guys, but were different and it sucks.
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I think the same thing is for me, we all are just way too different.

Beingakrant said:
Fu*k fake friends. I have also stopped partying and hanging out with friends who have had complex problems with me. I now have only few buddies whom I can rely upon completely. They have been my friends since my childhood days. I have realized that these fake friends never care about you when you don't have money in your pocket. They don't give a damn when you're in a mess. All they care is partying and spoiling your precious time. I am glad that you have realized this fact. It's equal to enlightenment. Now, you'll be free and have more time to devote on IM. Fulfill your dreams and make your life big.

Cheers :)
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yup, they are serious time wasters ;) You try to help them, talk with them etc. but when you need something, they just simple ignore you and do nothing, My time is more valuable than talking with them.

dheer said:
If your sixth sense says someone is not perfect for you and somehow you keep interacting with them it is not good for your future. They jealous they envy on your progress as they can't match up with you.. Just get rid of these fake friends.
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I think my sixth sense is being enabled by alco lol. Anyway good point.
If they are jelous and envy and try to get you broken emotionaly, that means you are in front of them. NICE :)

BE A LEADER, NOT A FOLLOWER
 
I went through this phase about a year ago.

I thought all of my friends were not worth my time and I just wanted to work...

Here's how it turned out.

The amount of money I was making increased by a lot, I expanded what I do by a lot and I met a lot of new great contacts.

Fast forward I'm back with my friends (I never had the problem with "fake friends" or anything like that just wanted to work) and I'm happier than I was before. I mean I was happy before as well but now I've got a lot more going for me as well so... In the long run I definitely think it was a good choice
 
bwman said:
lol, this is what happens when you become serious with IM, your mind is transformed in some way. We look at other people and how they act and react towards certain things and be like ...''facepalm''dont worry you are going through a phase I guess, with time you will learn to adapt to eerrr ''regular'' people :D
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110% spot on. Although dumping might be a little too hasty and not very considerate well, becoming really serious in IM puts things in such a perspective that it can be VERY hard to relate to other "standard" ppl: they'll never understand you and you won't be able to understand them anymore. And imo it's not retroactive like most knowledge isn't. On the other hand I see no reason to burn bridges at any time, after all as they say: no harm no foul ;)
 
They never help you when you need them, even with smallest things. People are all different so I'm ok with them not sharing my goals/principles, but when it comes to help you in some way, there you can see the truth.

I came to the conclusion most of my "friends" don't give a fuk, but there are one or two that care, so make sure to value those.
 
True! I have also filtered some of my fake friends who actually envy my progress. Real friends are the ones who won't envy your success and will be happy for who you are right now.
 
find a real friend ....he will be more worth than any money.I had the luck to say that i had friends who would jump into fire for me but thats also what i would do for them
 
dheer said:
If your sixth sense says someone is not perfect for you and somehow you keep interacting with them it is not good for your future. They jealous they envy on your progress as they can't match up with you.. Just get rid of these fake friends.
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100% correct, we *ALL* have these people around us in one form or another, sometimes if you're unlucky it can include relatives/family members!
 
sirgold said:
110% spot on. Although dumping might be a little too hasty and not very considerate well, becoming really serious in IM puts things in such a perspective that it can be VERY hard to relate to other "standard" ppl: they'll never understand you and you won't be able to understand them anymore. And imo it's not retroactive like most knowledge isn't. On the other hand I see no reason to burn bridges at any time, after all as they say: no harm no foul ;)
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It's a double edged sword -- This kind of developed mentality (especially from self-made success)can alienate you from society and can lead to depression and isolation. You need to be able to accept people for who they are, but also not to be a doormat pushover. It's a fine line
 
damn i love these kind of threads :D i suggest you to have one real best friend.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6VIaZ-eCQQ

:D
 
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