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Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by GreenGoblin, Nov 14, 2012.

  1. GreenGoblin

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    SO! a family member calls me the call goes like this

    Family member: Hey Bro I think my GF is sleeping with her Boss
    Me: why you think that

    These are his reasons
    1. She gets bonuses that know one else gets in the company (small company)
    2. She get's to drive around in the company car (Benz)
    3. When I ask her friend who works there when was her last bonus, she says "she never got a bonus before"
    4 she gets extra nice to go to work, she doesn't even dress that way when I take her out to eat.
    5. she works 2-3 hours over daily

    NOW! this number #6 really got me thinking cause it is odd and even told him its odd.

    6. She has no text message history as if all her text messages has been deleted each day.

    So I told him ill post it here and let you guys chime in, I don't wanna tell him YO! you boss smashing your GF cause I'm bias I rather people who don't know him give there opinion.
     
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  2. Th3T3chGuy

    Th3T3chGuy Senior Member

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    YO! you boss smashing your GF

    Truth hurts.
     
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  3. Mr Stark

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    Sorry for your buddy/cousin, but it seems the boss is doing her...
     
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  4. SmileAtmyWins

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    Honestly, her texts are always deleted for a reason. She may not be with her boss, but with someone else. I mean honestly, who erases their text history unless they have something to hide. Tell him to pull a creeper and tail her one night.
     
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    Tell him to figure it out for himself and you stay out of it! Your involvement in the matter will only lead to shit for you as this thing plays out.
     
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    Yes... I agree with this.. Maybe she hide something.. what a girl... :p
     
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  7. Dagreyon

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    Actually, I was just told yesterday by someone else that my girlfriend has been cheating on me with a coworker. Called her up, since I knew it had to be true since the last week she has been acting weird and went and had a talk with her the day before I was told this, she couldn't look me in the face and I knew something was wrong. She lied and kept saying everything was fine, so I left. Woke up the next morning when I was supposed to take her out for her birthday, which I planned a spa day, dinner etc. and then I get a text I've never had before from one of her other co-workers that I'm friends with: "Hey, I don't know how to tell you this, but I'm just going to throw it out there." I instantly knew it was going to be bad and my adrenalin started pumping. I got the details, called her up and went off on her, calling her every name in the book. She hung up on me and sent me 20 text messages saying:
    Please don't give up on me
    Please come talk to me
    It was retarded but I was confused
    etc.
    Didn't respond to a single one of them, which makes me feel that much better everytime I get a text, which they keep coming and I don't respond. So, she works at the bar that I'm a regular at and I'm definitely the top 3 best customers (ballin' with my internet money) and I was talking to her co-workers (the ones who brought this to my attention) and I told them some things. Went to the manager, told her, BOOM, she's fired 1 hour later. Found out by getting a text from her say "I just got fired". As bad as I wanted to text her saying "I told you not to fuck with me", I didn't. Now she lost all her friends, which were really my friends who liked her because she was with me and she lost her job. Do I feel bad? No. She cheated on me and karma is a bitch. Now I'm working on the 35 year old who she cheated on me with (she's 24 btw).
    /vent /rant

    Sorry, not sure how that turned into my story, but hopefully someone will enjoy reading that. Feels good to let it out sometimes.

    Anyways, back to your questions. Maybe she is working late, because she values her job and if she's actually working and not up to something with her boss, then that's probably why she's getting the bonuses. When someones cheating on you, you normally can see the signs. They don't seem as interested and things just aren't the same. The fact she deletes all her text messages is definitely sketchy, but I don't think that's proof she's in fact cheating on him. There's a lot of signs that she could be cheating, but this also could be normal. At the end of the day, it's all about the two people involved in the relationship, without knowing them it's hard to tell.

    Since there's signs that there could be something going on, tell him to do some digging. Tell him to drive by her work when she is supposed to be off. Tell him to confront her at home and ask if everything is alright. If she is still there after hours, tell him to drop in and bring her something, to see what's going on in there, if she isn't leaving to bone the boss when she's allegedly there.
     
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  8. No.RuleZ

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    the texts being deleted its the worse part, he should put something on the phone to spy
     
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  9. YouFeelMeDawg?

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    ya i agree. The text part is the giveaway, man if i was you i would just try to resolve this in an amicable way.

    I suggest you call Joey Greco and get her on national tv.
    Post up the link when you get it.
     
  10. balsagoth007

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    Tell him to use Prosper to track her movements :)
     
  11. Techxan

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    Yeah sure, he should go to jail over this. He should put a gps tracker in her car and watch her movements without letting her know, if this is legal in his jurisdiction. If she is up to something the travel pattern will tell. If not, pull the device and never say a word. You don't look like an overbearing jealous jerk in she is all innocent. Let's face it if she isn't cheating and finds out you went to all this trouble to spy on her, she may very well leave.

    Visiting her after hours is a good idea too.

    Also, kissing her when she leaves and arrives will tell you a lot. Smell her while kissing. Many times someone cheating will smell better after work than before, or smell like they just got dressed in the morning, having cleaned themselves up before returning home.

    If she's coming home freshly showered, she's cheating or at the gym. Verifying her at the gym, or not, a few times is easy.
     
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    She stays work longer because she has an overprotective boyfriend who keeps reading her text messages and going through her stuff every 5 minutes? Proberly doesn't have any respect for her so its easier for her to stay a couple hours longer at work and avoid the shitty situation

    Might clean out the phone so stop any arguments and some people are just like that - My misses deletes every email she gets - And what? Thats just wierd nothing to do with cheating
     
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  13. michael8t6

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    Wow alot of people saying spy on her! hmmm stalkers perhaps?

    Bro from the sounds of it she's banging the boss, however there could be valid reasons for her actions that don't point to her playing away. The deleted messages thing could be for a number of reasons, I delete my messages daily just in case I lose my phone. I don't want a complete stranger reading personal messages between me and my mum or brother or any of my friends for that matter :)

    The one that triggered me thinking she is playing around was the added bonus wage, why does she get it and none of her co workers? Or least her friend that was asked about the bonus. Best thing he could do is just confront her and go of her body actions. Best thing you could do is stay out of it ;) If she is then just be there for your mate and get smashed with him :)
     
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  14. mrankin

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    Good point, she may well be wanting to get out of her current relationship and flirting with guys at work etc. The relationship is already in a very bad place since there appears to be little honesty and trust. Either they work on this, or just let the relationship fall apart which is what's going to happen at any rate if they don't work on their communication. IMO you either trust your partner 100% or you may as well not be in the relationship. Mistrust and resentment don't tend to lend themselves to happiness.
     
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    If you can get access to her cell, you can run a program such as "Card Recovery" and recover her deleted files, not sure if it will work with txts though, but I used it to gain access to deleted picts and what not, and it works.

    Plus there is a few programs like that, they are paid but we all know where the free hacked ones are :)
    "Icard data recovery" works good.
     
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  16. MermaidMurder

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    Depends on what she looks like?

    Is she a 7+? then I would be pretty worried... If she is a 6 or under then FUck it and get another one
     
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    Number 6!
    But then again, why the F is he looking through her text messages?
    Stop the invasion of privacy why don't you.
     
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  18. GreenGoblin

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    you know what's interesting I told him the same thing, he called me shallow....so i showed him your post just to show him I'm not the only one who's saying that.
     
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    #6 = All doubts cleared. Unequivocally doing her.
     
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  20. Cas87

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    Your family member seems to be paranoid..

    and since there is no trust, the relationship is doomed anyway..

    1. She gets bonuses that know one else gets in the company (small company)
    Does she have a better job than others in the company? for example, i would expect a manager/assistant manager to recieve a bonus... but not a sales assistant/cleaner

    2. She get's to drive around in the company car (Benz)
    Same as question 1, you did not specify what she does, her role could be more important than other members of staff... important enough to warrant a company cay

    3. When I ask her friend who works there when was her last bonus, she says "she never got a bonus before"
    Same as 1 or 2...is her friend lower down? a cleaner? is she in a higher position than her friend?
    or, does she receive a bonus based on commission?


    4 she gets extra nice to go to work, she doesn't even dress that way when I take her out to eat.
    Some people like to take pride in their appearance .. maybe she doesn't make an effort at home because your family member doesn't either? maybe she feels comfortable enough with your family member not to have to dress up every time they go somewhere? two way street?

    5. she works 2-3 hours over daily
    irrelevant... there are a few high paid jobs which work short hours..

    NOW! this number #6 really got me thinking cause it is odd and even told him its odd.

    6. She has no text message history as if all her text messages has been deleted each day
    Your family member shouldn't been snooping through her phone in the first place to notice her text messages have been deleted lol where is the trust?

    if i knew someone was snooping in mine, i would delete them on purpose to wind them up!


    She is probably banging her boss, but you never know! :D
     
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