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question about a personal interaction

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by theseodude, Sep 21, 2012.

  1. theseodude

    theseodude Regular Member

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    I am a customer at this mailbox place. under the package that I have, i can have only one name for my mail. but for the past few months, I have become friend with this girl that works there and I am getting my mail under different business names.

    so somehow the owner found out. I won't get into details how, but it was the girl's fault. Now the girl feels guilty.

    before, I used to joke around and be nice with the girl. Today was the first time I saw her since the incident, and I tried to be serious and have some awkward silences. then she said "we got your back, don't worry about anything"

    I am wondering what should my "personality" be like? should i go back to being that nice guy? or should I try to be silent and awkward for a while?

    my goal is to make sure that she doesn't start charging me the higher fee.
     
  2. senior

    senior Regular Member

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    Act the same as you did before. Sounds like she went to bat for you and took the heat so you should be thankful and extra nice.
     
  3. Amsterdammer

    Amsterdammer Power Member

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    Ask her for a date. ;)
     
  4. mbreezy

    mbreezy Regular Member

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    I suggest using the Golden Rule. Treat her as you would want to be treated. You can't go wrong with that approach.

    Let her know that you appreciate her and what she's done for you. Also mention that you're not trying to get her in any trouble at her job.
     
  5. Andrew Scherer

    Andrew Scherer Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    give her a gift