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Hi guys, I feel empty. No hope, no more motivation. I'm a 22-year-old man, and yes, I cry every night when I see everyone going out, eating, having fun, buying stuff, that i can't afford. I've tried so hard, but I'm just dumb and I give up. I don't know what to do right now. My girl, who I loved so much, left me because I can't afford her stuff. I want to make my parents proud also, but I can't. They are old now, 65 dad and 58 mom, they can't work. We eat two meals a day. I don't sleep, just thinking about how I can win, how I can be the one. I live in a poor country, even if I tried to have a physical job, it wouldn't be better. So yes, not like you guys, I failed. You already know the next step, but I don't know how to do it properly. Bye and good luck for you. I hope you'll never be in my situation

You´ll be fine, you are just a young guy still. Read the forum and make some money off what you learn. By the way, if your parents are old then so am I since we are in the same age almost.

Uninstall your social medias and stop comparing yourself to others.

You're 22.
You aren't even supposed to be 'sucessful' yet.

You don't need to be 'better' or make more money than others.
The only thing that matters is that you focus on bettering yourself.

If you're even a tiny bit better in something today than you were yesterday, it's a win.

Ps. Read 12 Rules for Life and Atomic Habits. In that order.

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Hi guys, I feel empty. No hope, no more motivation. I'm a 22-year-old man, and yes, I cry every night when I see everyone going out, eating, having fun, buying stuff, that i can't afford. I've tried so hard, but I'm just dumb and I give up. I don't know what to do right now. My girl, who I loved so much, left me because I can't afford her stuff. I want to make my parents proud also, but I can't. They are old now, 65 dad and 58 mom, they can't work. We eat two meals a day. I don't sleep, just thinking about how I can win, how I can be the one. I live in a poor country, even if I tried to have a physical job, it wouldn't be better. So yes, not like you guys, I failed. You already know the next step, but I don't know how to do it properly. Bye and good luck for you. I hope you'll never be in my situation

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Listen bro, as long you have the the right mindset and believe that your life will become better in the future, you will become successful. If you truly want to make your parents proud and change your family’s life then keep on grinding and don’t give up. I know it’s easier said than done but just have faith and trust in yourself and God.

Maybe find a therapist.

Do you think I could bear the fact I lost billions in my youth?

No, I had to consult a psychologist and found out to have multiple personality disorders + depression.

Then it'll be lifetime long therapy.

I've done 6 months and benefits are crazy big. From anti-social person I managed to get to more organized being that doesn't destruct everything.

p2dro said:

Hi guys, I feel empty. No hope, no more motivation. I'm a 22-year-old man,

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You are 22, you are young, very young

p2dro said:

My girl, who I loved so much, left me because I can't afford her stuff

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Probably better that way.
Relationships are goldsinks

reaaski said:

Maybe find a therapist

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dude prob can't even afford it

p2dro said:

You already know the next step, but I don't know how to do it properly

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Get a offline job.

p2dro said:

Bye and good luck for you. I hope you'll never be in my situation

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Bye, and I hope by the time we see you next, you are a happy man

xReminisce said:

dude prob can't even afford it

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That's for free.

All you need to do is drink a bunch of alcohol and say you need help with it. They assign you a therapist. Might not be a good one the first one, but keep on searching and you'll find. Also do diagnoses for personality disorders / mental issues.

Depends on country but AA groups and social psychologists are all over the world.

If a psychologist is volunteering, you know they might do it from their heart.

Most therapists don't get paid very well. They're not rich like people think. Just organized and collected as they know how to not kill themselves.

Get a job first and stop wasting time thinking and crying about what you cannot control.

22 means you're young and still got time to polish/learn skills.

Keep trying and you will gain expertise in something for sure.

i'm 22 as well brother, i've started making and trying things since 16 yo doing 2$ a month with short links, i created a website to sell cracked netflix lol i didn't make any money, i tried working as a seller for 2 months and boss gave me 200$ at the and of the month and after that i left the job i focused 100% again in pc trying new stuff, manifest what you want and work your ass off it will get back 100% trust me, right now i'm doing OF and doing a really good job managing 5 models bro i've been like you as well i think everyone be in the same "stuck" situation as you are right now, i suppose life has ups and downs for everyone so don't give up we are still young a lot of people would exchange every penny for the age we are right now! I'm still not happy with what i am doing right now because we are young and it is supposed we work harder than we are working so do that before it's too late, in this forum i think you can gain the knowledge and a lot of years of experience that most of this guys have found out by themselves and not from here so read everything you can possible read here and you will make it! Good luck brother

I would do anything to stop my physical health from going worse but sometimes you just have to accept the fact it goes down and go ask doctor for meds.

health is a problem you can't do shit about it, everything else can get fixed. I hope everything will go better for you brother!

p2dro said:

Hi guys, I feel empty. No hope, no more motivation. I'm a 22-year-old man, and yes, I cry every night when I see everyone going out, eating, having fun, buying stuff, that i can't afford. I've tried so hard, but I'm just dumb and I give up. I don't know what to do right now. My girl, who I loved so much, left me because I can't afford her stuff. I want to make my parents proud also, but I can't. They are old now, 65 dad and 58 mom, they can't work. We eat two meals a day. I don't sleep, just thinking about how I can win, how I can be the one. I live in a poor country, even if I tried to have a physical job, it wouldn't be better. So yes, not like you guys, I failed. You already know the next step, but I don't know how to do it properly. Bye and good luck for you. I hope you'll never be in my situation

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msg me for help pls

alexg0330 said:

msg me for help pls

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Hello brother

Without reading all the comment- please listen:

You are always welcome to msg me for help, since I assume this is an open forum and not allowed.

Please please please!
Dont judge on yourself okay?
If you want I can tell you story’s I had in my life, similar to yours - you will get out of it- stronger than before. Now that sounds like a weird sentence everyone can write. But it’s the truth.


The first step you did already. Opening to others (anonym people) to tell about your worries and situation.

At this point please listen to the others like @Juhku , @xReminisce & others!

Do not say bye.
Please explain your situation more precisely, tell me if you want where you are from.
I will help you out financially!

If you want we can have a call, together with mods or anything.
I’m willing to help you financially!

@BassTrackerBoats would that be okay?

Wherever you are, try to get medical advise.
Depressions are hard, we know that. But do not give up, you are 22 years old!

We are with you, just be a bit more open or let us know.

Kind regards Zotix

same struggle brother here , just got 23 few days ago , we have no other choise , keep fighting or die in the trenches

zotix said:

Without reading all the comment- please listen:

You are always welcome to msg me for help, since I assume this is an open forum and not allowed.

Please please please!
Dont judge on yourself okay?
If you want I can tell you story’s I had in my life, similar to yours - you will get out of it- stronger than before. Now that sounds like a weird sentence everyone can write. But it’s the truth.


The first step you did already. Opening to others (anonym people) to tell about your worries and situation.

At this point please listen to the others like @Juhku , @xReminisce & others!

Do not say bye.
Please explain your situation more precisely, tell me if you want where you are from.
I will help you out financially!

If you want we can have a call, together with mods or anything.
I’m willing to help you financially!

@BassTrackerBoats would that be okay?

Wherever you are, try to get medical advise.
Depressions are hard, we know that. But do not give up, you are 22 years old!

We are with you, just be a bit more open or let us know.

Kind regards Zotix

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I was that type of guy always laughing and smiling to people im strongly sensitive as said my ex school’s therapist. My dad was as engineer we was having a good life but he stopped working in 2012 i was 12 yo i have 3 others brothers and all my dad’s savings go’s to my brother so they can study and stuff he gived every thing left for them . Now they don’t leave with us anymore and we don’t see them and they don’t care about us my father didn’t quite his job but he retired very early . Now he earn 700$ for 3 peaple and he have a credit of 25000$ to pay i have the same clothes sins i am 18 my friends gift me things sometimes i have a lot of things to say guys really a lot how’s my life going and what i tried how many times i failed but i can’t anymore . Imagine knowing that ur family is hungry and you can’t do shit cause you didn’t graduate cause u shit and can’t have a work a stupid leaving body i dreamed when i was 19 that i would do something and help my family and my self i wanna be independent i wanna be special help every body im that type of person that when i have 5$ i give 1$ to someone else i live in morocco and the smig is 3000dhs = 300$ no one give you that they cab give 250$ max for 12h per day they use you literally i have so many things to say im good guy i don’t understand why i have to leave this and i can’t tell you how many times i see my dad hiding and crying cause he can’t handle it i need someon To talk to understand me to help pla guys help really i need your help

magribi khoya ? god with you , it will get better at the end , just keep grinding

p2dro said:

Hi guys, I feel empty. No hope, no more motivation. I'm a 22-year-old man, and yes, I cry every night when I see everyone going out, eating, having fun, buying stuff, that i can't afford. I've tried so hard, but I'm just dumb and I give up. I don't know what to do right now. My girl, who I loved so much, left me because I can't afford her stuff. I want to make my parents proud also, but I can't. They are old now, 65 dad and 58 mom, they can't work. We eat two meals a day. I don't sleep, just thinking about how I can win, how I can be the one. I live in a poor country, even if I tried to have a physical job, it wouldn't be better. So yes, not like you guys, I failed. You already know the next step, but I don't know how to do it properly. Bye and good luck for you. I hope you'll never be in my situation

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I tried everything i was alcoholic for two years but the alcohol lied to me i was feeling that im untouchable that every thing is ok but when the alcohol stop giving me the same feeling i stopped drinking then i got in a massive depression i stopped 8 months ago so happy that i did dad and ill never touch that shit again . I do gym , night walks or run i tried meditating that helping me ofc but when i see a family living going out together or packing their suitcase for traveling oh good that feeling idk if you really understand the pain the shame that im feelinG i would never say no for help or something cause people helped me with money and i tried to do something with that money but i didn’t . Now i dont have a cent to invest to create a business online or physical that’s why im here saying that . I wanna leave again i wanna be happy again like i was before like a kid riding his bicycle for the first time i want that again . I have a lof things to say a lot of things that i want to do soory guys for my english but i just realized that i can’t i love you so much talking to me like that giving me hope but i know if im disappointed or i fail another time that’s gonna be brutal thank you guys for you love i hope you happiness and success i really appreciate every single reply

Mankar Camoran said:

magribi khoya ? god with you , it will get better at the end , just keep grinding

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zotix said:

Without reading all the comment- please listen:

You are always welcome to msg me for help, since I assume this is an open forum and not allowed.

Please please please!
Dont judge on yourself okay?
If you want I can tell you story’s I had in my life, similar to yours - you will get out of it- stronger than before. Now that sounds like a weird sentence everyone can write. But it’s the truth.


The first step you did already. Opening to others (anonym people) to tell about your worries and situation.

At this point please listen to the others like @Juhku , @xReminisce & others!

Do not say bye.
Please explain your situation more precisely, tell me if you want where you are from.
I will help you out financially!

If you want we can have a call, together with mods or anything.
I’m willing to help you financially!

@BassTrackerBoats would that be okay?

Wherever you are, try to get medical advise.
Depressions are hard, we know that. But do not give up, you are 22 years old!

We are with you, just be a bit more open or let us know.

Kind regards Zotix

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a call would be better

Mankar Camoran said:

magribi khoya ? god with you , it will get better at the end , just keep grinding

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I hope so thank you chokran