Great story, thank you for sharing! As a 30 something father of 3 who works for a software company, I was able to identify with many of the things you said. I'm on BHW whenever I have free time and am trying to learn everything I can. There is a ton of good information on this forum and I look forward to the day that I can give something back. I can't believe I overlooked the irc channel! I'm adding it to the irc client that I have on my phone right away!