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People are changing

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by devil157, Aug 2, 2015.

  1. devil157

    devil157 Registered Member

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    Hi there BlackHatters,

    Is it only me or are people changing? I see people around me changing and nobody is who he or she ever was.

    Some people who I told my secrets are telling it to everybody and my best friend betrayed me by the Police for having illegal firework.

    I can't trust people anymore. Everytime when I think about this, then i'm thinking that i'm a one man army.

    Are there people in a situation like me?
     
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  2. WizGizmo

    WizGizmo Super Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    Yeah . . . Pewep put a spell on the world and now everything has changed. :)

    EDIT: It's just temporary though . . . He promised to put everything back
    the way it was after New Years - 2016.
     
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    OP you just have a shitty people around you that you are calling friends.
    Usually people don't change, you just don't see there true nature until shit hits the fan.
     
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  4. elfgirl

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    the only thing that is constant is change
     
  5. WizGizmo

    WizGizmo Super Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    BINGO! . . . Everything is in a constant state of change. Even a
    rock is changing - gradually, yes, but it is changing nevertheless.

    Regarding your friends turning on you, that is another matter
    altogether. It has nothing to do with a change taking place on
    a global scale.

    "Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at will change."
    - Dr. Wayne Dyer
     
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    they probably didn't change, they probably were pretending to be someone they weren't to impress you.
     
  7. devil157

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    Thanks all for your replies! so you all are saying that... I just met the wrong "Friends"?
     
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    Zwielicht Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    Ah yes, the infamous Code 2M spell. He never revealed what it was publicly on the forum, but it was supposed to be a major spell. :)
     
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  9. WizGizmo

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    Just get a dog . . . You won't regret it. :)
     
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    Where you been? people have been rats for a while and its in every country these days.


     
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    The best advice yet!

     
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    Someone ratted you out over fireworks? Wow what a douche.
     
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    Whats the punishment for having fireworks?
     
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    People change but its our job to adapt and learn to live and move on. Let go of toxic waste and embrace change.
     
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    Just as Wiz says: get a dog! It will change the world for better! But be good to him/her as much as he/she is going to do to you -- that means infinitely! That relation will help you build up all the positivity in life, and help you deal with life's mysterious ways a lot better. Care for and love him so much that the world will sit up and begin respecting you... But don't forget to change yourself in an overall manner before expecting others to join your world! The dog will be that great remedy to help you get over your obstacles... IMHO :)
     
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    You learned a lesson the hard way. Now go and change the crowd you hang around. If you peddle in shit, what are the chances of getting diamonds?

    And ask yourself these questions:

    • Why have I been attracting poor quality of people?
    • How can I build my value to attract better quality of people?

    Change your environment (activities/crowd). Better yourself drastically. Enjoy life.
     
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    So you're friends are dogs and your extrapolating that observation to the rest of the world's population?
     
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    Believe in Karma and do good things to get the same back.

    Do self analysis first and find out how you reacted with them in their bad times. Never share your secrets with anyone no matter how close he is. The last but not least never expect anything from friends. I hope it helps.
     
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    Change is the only thing that never change, understand the reality even if your close to some one don't share all your secrets, we are humans we do change based on situations.
     
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