Makes no difference if he has spent the money.
File an "Item Not Recevied" complaint.
He must then provide a tracking number and since it is farily obvious that he has no intention of doing so, your funds will be restored to you under PayPa'ls Buyer Protection Plan.
You MUST file "Item Not Received" as you only have ONE shot at this unless you paid through PayPal via credit card so that if PayPal finds in his favour, which is very unlikely, you can then file a dispute through your credit card company, depending on how old this matter is.
When he cannot provide a tracking number, PayPal will find in YOUR favour.
In the meantime, whiy did you wait 30 days?
Even if he had sent the item to you via Snail Mail, two woeeks at the outside!
I been doin' PayPal since they bought BillPoint and gave everyone a PayPal account, so I know!
Now get off your ass, quit whining and..........
......STAND UP FOR YOUR RIGHTS!
By the way, you only have 45 days to file this complaint so don't let any grass grow!