Paypal Dispute advice needed... some bitch...

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  1. Nocky69

    Nocky69 Registered Member

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  2. AndersonSpider

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    Edit: Ok, I just realized that this was one single transaction. Ignore my original post.

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  3. rudeprincess

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    @Anderson: Did you miss this sentence: 'She would subtract the credit card fees and send me my cut by paypal.' How about reading the thread? lol
     
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  4. newss

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    Yes, I would be as truthful as possible in the email and if a payment dispute is opened up. Ultimately it will be up to paypal and perhaps her credit card company (if she does a dispute) to decide. There really is nothing you can do.

    In all honesty what are we talking about here, probably <$100 or so. You should be thankful that you sold the website, I am assuming for a profit, and move on and not waste anymore time on this clown.
     
  5. Nocky69

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    Depends how she flagged the money when she sent it to you. Did she mark it as money owed/gift etc?

    Also did you provide a reciept/invoice to her stating what the money was for?
     
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  8. blazen

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    Well paypal do not refund non-tangible sales. You would have to tell paypal that
     
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    Don't ever lie to paypal, that will screw you in the end..... If there was no signing of contracts or anything of the like, then don't worry about it.... Explain that there was no reason for her to be filing a dispute or claim as it may end up being, because the product was delivered electronically. There is no record of delivery because of such. Therefore, if this was, and you are claiming it to be such, there was no "tangible good" to be delivered... That should help you in your claim.... And possibly win it if you are truthful and patient... If she makes a chargeback on her cc, if she paid via one, that could take up to 6 months.... I just got my money back from a chargeback last week and it was in nov/dec 2009 when it was placed..... So yeah... Good luck
     
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  11. TapTapper

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    GayPal will lie through their teeth to you so believe nothing they say. I had a similar thing and called them to head the beeatch off at the pass. They agreed with me and told me not to worry about it. When she escalated it went to a new bunch of d-bags who didn't give a crap what the first guy said.

    If she said the payment was for a service you might have a chance. If it was 4 different transactions you'll have a better shot at winning. Good luck man!
     
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    Keep us posted, I want to see you win.
     
  13. daserpent

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    Maybe you could copy-paste the original conversation/agreement that you had with her. Maybe the email chat ( best if her paypal email id and the email id she used to chat with you or email you were the same ).

    Sending paypal the conversation can help you win the dispute. Paypal gets hundreds of such cases each day and when it is escalated .. they require you to produce any conversation or emails you might have exchanged with the person.

    Hope it helps