off topic question.. Who is more important spouse or parents?

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Who is more important spouse or parents?

I am still struggling to get a decision on it.Read it over quora but Some said they are equally important, one who cannot be of his/her parents cannot be of anyone else.some said when you do marriage then spouse takes place over your way. I am getting some way this thing right....
According to me, its nature's way , the blood relations have to change but the real friends does not change ever....
 
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ankit03 said:
Who is more important spouse or parents?

I am still struggling to get a decision on it.Read it over quora but Some said they are equally important, one who cannot be of his/her parents cannot be of anyone else.some said when you do marriage then spouse takes place over your way. I am getting some way this thing right....
According to me, its nature's way , the blood relations have to change but the real friends does not change ever....
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Easily understandable after someone obtains true insight on who your parents & spouse is. No one will be able to even give you advice on this without knowing the pro's and con's of all the variables, but to be clear, the actual one who is most important is not even mentioned and that person is you. You can lose your spouse and still have your parents. You could lose your parents and still have the spouse. Friends are there, but the honest value to your life is you personally. Without you there is no them. You're more important. Whatever will benifet you most in the long run is what's most important.
 
Depends, can't really answer this for everyone because it may be different depending on the circumstances.

For me it's my spouse but mostly because my parents are crazy (late bloomers, they used to be nice people).
 
then you have to decide which parents are more important
 
Who do you think you'd be happier with bro? Your spouse or your parents?? I guess that can give the answer.. :)
 
From my experience, everyone can leave you in bad times (including your partner) except parents.
 
krishnaverma said:
From my experience, everyone can leave you in bad times (including your partner) except parents.
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Ok, this is a really fair point. Even my crazy parents would have my back no matter what.

Spouse, idk, our love is conditional. :D
 
Two different types of relationships - it's like comparing apples and oranges. In an ideal situation you wouldn't have to pick - you spend most of your time with your spouse, but make time for parents.

If you're put in a position where one party conflicts with the other - then the one who is trying to "share" you is the less selfish of the two, and probably the better of the two parties.

If your spouse is trying to cut you off from your parents for no real reason, they're probably trouble. If your parents are trying to trash-talk your spouse and disapprove, you might be better off without them.

It's a sticky situation - but the moral is toxic people are never important, and if your parents or spouse are toxic, time to cut ties. Just my .02
 
wait wasnt you the one who said he is not attracted to his girlfriend and only spend like 10hours/month? and now you want to marry her?
fishy
 
ankit03 said:
Who is more important spouse or parents?

I am still struggling to get a decision on it.Read it over quora but Some said they are equally important, one who cannot be of his/her parents cannot be of anyone else.some said when you do marriage then spouse takes place over your way. I am getting some way this thing right....
According to me, its nature's way , the blood relations have to change but the real friends does not change ever....
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The key is the Balance mate.
 
Your parents will always LOVE and support you no matter what. You are their own blood. Your spouse no matter how great she is can always leave you, cheat you etc. IMHO it really depends on each situation but for me I would never pick my spouse if it would hurt my parents in any way
 
If your spouse is the one making you choose this purposely... then your spouse might have problems. My ex-wife used to always say weird things like "do you love me or your mom more" and stuff like that... it was weird and turns out she was a complete freak and had problems... so it might be a lot more involved than who should you love more...
 
You only get one set of parents (unless you are a UK benefits chav with 18 dads) These days wives come and go every 2 to 3 years.
 
easyclick0 said:
If your spouse is the one making you choose this purposely... then your spouse might have problems. My ex-wife used to always say weird things like "do you love me or your mom more" and stuff like that... it was weird and turns out she was a complete freak and had problems... so it might be a lot more involved than who should you love more...
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This is quite common. Basic nature I suppose.
 
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