Not sure should have posted this
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jobhelperapp
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- Feb 16, 2021
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u bad op
Aleksandar916
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Bugging your friends and gf is seriously fucked up, I'd recommend therapy.
The joke (friend) and safety (gf) are just the excuses you're making to justify your actions, but it's a serious invasion of privacy and horrible trust issues you're having.
The joke (friend) and safety (gf) are just the excuses you're making to justify your actions, but it's a serious invasion of privacy and horrible trust issues you're having.
Triton91
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Its about trust. Not what you think is right.Yeh I did that once to get my own back about something but I don’t do that anymore. At all. That was when I was like 16
As for my gf I just check in her location. She told me a story when she was uni and got stranded. And I don’t want that happening. Thats all.
GoldenTouch
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Based on everything you wrote, it seems to me that you are a controlling person. I suspect you feel anxious when there is uncertainty, and perhaps you want to keep things from going "wrong" by trying to excessively control people.
As another member already suggested, therapy is a thing to consider if you want to get rid of this behavior.
As another member already suggested, therapy is a thing to consider if you want to get rid of this behavior.
blogmen
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Nah man, you're not sick.
You just learned this trick and then became tempting to try it on people around you. Some childish stuff at most. What you did for your boss is acceptable in my book, you nailed the bad guy, something had to be done and your boss accepted the risk.
Only thing is to not go overboard and end up doing it for the wrong person at the wrong time. But by the looks of it, I don't think you're foolish to put yourself in danger like that. If you were sick in the head you'd be in trouble by now.
You just learned this trick and then became tempting to try it on people around you. Some childish stuff at most. What you did for your boss is acceptable in my book, you nailed the bad guy, something had to be done and your boss accepted the risk.
Only thing is to not go overboard and end up doing it for the wrong person at the wrong time. But by the looks of it, I don't think you're foolish to put yourself in danger like that. If you were sick in the head you'd be in trouble by now.
speedy5044
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damn it , i missed he fun
GoldenTouch
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Just shared what first came to my mind when I read the post. Your behavior does have some similarities to the behavior of people that are diagnosed as controlling. Had some experience with this. Not judging you, just wanting to help you if this bothers you.
If you don't have negative feelings associated with this type of behavior, then all is cool!
Thank you! Finally someone who gets it lol
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